The Governor.
Tags:I grew up aware of politics. Interested at a distance. I could tell you who the President was and maybe a bit more than that about what was happening in the world. In college, after my failed attempt and realization that being a killer whale trainer at SeaWorld was probably not going to happen, I marched over to the English department and came up with my own major titled American Studies. If I wasn't going to be swimming with whales I might as well become an attorney (can you follow that logic?).
American Studies allowed me to focus on three main areas: American Literature, American History, and Political Science (with a bit of sociology thrown in for good measure). Loved it. It was all about reading and writing and culture and history and current events. It was at that time that I started paying a bit more attention. One of my favorite classes in college was called Politics and the Media. Loved learning about the dynamic between the two. That was back in 1996.
At no point did I ever really imagine I would be involved on a personal level.
Fast forward to this crazy last year. Politics and the workings of our state government are now a daily part of my life - at least from the stand point of asking a lot of questions each night when Chris comes home from the Capitol. I love hearing all about it and the crazy dynamics that go into government at this level.
Tuesday night I had the chance to go with Chris to the Governor'shome (for those of you outside the US, the Governor is the leader of our state). We were invited, along with some of the other new legislators, for a small gathering to chat and talk politics and have a drink in a small group setting.
The kid in me was jumping for joy. Giddy is another good word.
After getting Simon all situated, we drove the short distance from the Capitol to the Governor's home which is called Mahonia Hall. When we got out of the car I had to make a decision: camera or no camera? I decided to leave the camera in the car. It felt instrusive and bulky and over-the-top. At the gate we were greeted by a secuity guard and then escorted to the door. We were lead into the house and seated in the living room where we met the Governor's wife Mary.
The other couple's arrived shortly after - there were four in all - and then the Governor arrived. It was interesting to be in his home, the place he comes back to after a long day, after going from meeting to meeting, dealing with failures and successes, after speaking on the phone with two different families who lost sons in Iraq this week. It is also the house that other Governor's of the past have come home to (it was built in 1924 by Ellis F. Lawrence, the founder of the University of Oregon School of Architecture). I felt a really big sense of gratitude to him that he opened his home to us - making us welcome - I am sure that is all part of the job, but I felt comfortable and warm and welcomed.
I think that is something that will become even more interesting to me as time goes on, that line between public and private - between the person and the job. Being there felt like a wonderful little gathering among friends - intimate and open. And then something would remind me that I was sitting right next to the leader of our state.
Cool conversation about the state of our state and our nation and other things of political interest. Totally enjoyed my time there. I had one of those moments, sitting next to Chris on the couch, of overwhelming pride. I peeked at him and smiled to myself, choked back some emotion, and looked around the room and almost had to pinch myself.
As we were standing up to leave the Governor asked me what I do...the million dollar question (I know some of you are laughing right now). Once again, how do I explain what I do? I laughed as usual and then told him. He had a priceless look on his face..."scrapbooking?" And then I said - are you ready for this - "I brought a magazine with me so I could show you just what I do. It is in the car" He had a big smile on his face and told me he would walk us out to the car so he could get the magazine.
You know I was loving it at that point.
We said goodbye as everyone was leaving and then he came out to our car, I grabbed the magazine. "Do you have a website?" he asked. Oh yes I do! I scribbled it on the inside of the magazine and flipped it to my article so he could see, really see, what I was talking about. A bit of joking ensued with Chris telling him how crazy (in a good way) it is this thing that I do.
God bless the Governor, he is such a kind, happy man. He has bright eyes and a keen takes a keen interest when you are chatting with him. He looked genuinely interested in checking it out, took the magazine in hand, said goodnight and walked back through the gate.
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what an awesome experience. and what a pleaseure to let this man(and his wife because you know she is not going to be able to contain herself once she peeks in the magazine!)in on this awesome world of scrapbooking. You are so gifted at what you do, as is your husband. I am so happy for you to be in this place in your life!
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Not to trash the Governor but, how could not know about you? We must complete the plot to have scrapbooking take over the world. Poor man - he doesn't know what he is missing. Hee hee.
Thnak your for sharing.
But one thing - what do you wear to meet the Governor at his home?
Robin
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I really enjoyed this post. The way you tell a story makes us feel like we are right there experiencing it.
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Ali! It's amazing how lifes' twists and turns have a way of allowing us to travel on the most interesting of paths. Life always seems like a tree with many branches and while much of it is controlled by fate, it's so much fun to be in the driving seat and have influence over each turning point in our own lives.
I grew up in England, well Europe actually (Germany to be precise). My dad was in the Royal Air Force so I got to travel. I attained a degree in modern languages and expected to be working in the EU or one of the Embassies (though I also had a fleeting dream of swimming with the dolphins), either that or married to a bank manager in a semi detached in a small town in the UK. How I deduced the latter I have no idea.
So how is it that I married into the USAF, living in just outside the US Capital for 3 years, the then onto Japan and now Alaska? I couldn't be much further from my aspirations if I tried.
And now this wonderful world of scrapbooking, in which I have met so many wonderful ladies, and men for that matter, including yourself (and I have a feeling you're the type of person that might remember that) I too am able to work in this industry for a living and have a field day trying to explain what I do? I totally understand the sheer bizarreness of it all.
Really loved this post Ali. It reminded me of a time when I was working in DC as a business development manager for an intelligence software company. I was invited to an event at the home of the British Embassador where I was able to chat one on one with the Embassador himself, who even knew of my Dad, believe it or not, and stand opopsite Sean Connery and see beneath his Hollywood exterior.
Life is sincerely just amazing.
(Oh and apologies for the novel....I hardly ever post on blogs, but today...well...you inspired me. Thank you!)
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i'm having a serious deja vu moment right now ... i too was a swimmer. i too knew i would grow up to be a whale trainer at sea world, until i failed anything bio/chem related and went into english/lit instead. my family is uber-political and socially aware. governor's mansions = fun/awe-inspiring places to hang. like to scrapbook. huh. if i were blonde, i'd really be scared. (glad you had a cool evening! what an amazing opportunity.)
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That is soooooo cool! What a great story, thanks for sharing it. Love your blog. You are a true inspiration.
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Ali,
I have been in your situation before when being asked "What do you do?" For a moment, I have a puzzled look and scramble for the right words to say. It's hard to explain that you are a journalist, photographer, scrapbooker, artist, or a historian without sounding silly. KNowing that you felt the same way I think I can stand proud now and say the first thing that comes to mind..."I'm a scrapbooker". That's enough. KNowing the passionate person you are and how many lives you have touched this man would be amazed. You are able to reach women from all over the world not only in your art but through your spirit. You've connected with so many people and shared your experiences with Autism, politics, self awareness. YOu are not "just" any one of these titles...you are a well rounded soul with much to give. Thanks for being you:)
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After having the pleasure of meeting both of you on separate occasions, out here in Eastern Oregon, I am quite honored. There are a lot of the same qualities in the two of you. Thanks for sharing your experience of Chris and you meeting the Governor!
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How exciting for you! I can just imagine what it was like in how you discribe it. My husband met him and enjoyed him.. WE were suppose to go... but I was ill... Hopefully I will get to go next time.
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i will kill myself if he takes up scrapbooking and has it published in CK!
I mean - im all for male interest in the way that "they let us get on with it" but wow - can you imagine him being a HOF 2007?
Then again - he could vote for making "a scrapbooking day" a national holiday!
loved the way you relayed your story with emotion - I felt like I was there with ya x
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I can't believe you left the camera in the car!!! Whoa. I don't think I would have been able to do that. Politics is a facinating profession and passion. I have worked in and out of the State Capital, ran campaigns, and am president of our Young Democrats chapter and most recently moved to the progressive nonprofit side to help promote the important social issues facing Connecticut. My boyfriend is the communications director so he helps get the democratic message out. Fun at times, intrustive in our lives most of the time, but worthwhile all of the time. I write this not to boast by any means, but to relate... and to express my joy that you and your family are starting this awesome journey into public life. Oregon is luck to have you.
And, I still need your address if you can email it to me. I have a stamp for you...
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