Around Here
Tags:AROUND HERE we've decided to have a no-TV summer. With the exception of maybe a movie night once a week/every couple of weeks, the TV is going to be off for the duration. Swimming, bikes, toys, running, playing outside, hanging out in the yard, reading books, making up things to play, playing together, more swimming - that's what I want our summer to be about. Most recently the TV has just been creating grouchy kids and I'm done with that...they might be grouchy for other reasons but it won't be because they can't watch another round of stuff on TV.
AROUND HERE I'm feeling really thankful to whoever it was that recently recommend The Family Dinner: Great Ways To Connect With Your Kids, One Meal At A Time. I cracked it open tonight and was inspired from the first few pages. I think it helps that this is really the mind-set I'm in right now (see TV comments above). We eat at the table together most nights (at least the kids and I do - it's been crazy the last six months for Chris while the legislature is in session) but I've been feeling worn down about the process lately and really just needed some inspiration to help me refocus on all the benefits that come from entering the kitchen with a positive attitude, having a plan & sticking to it, involving the kids in the process, and creating these really lovely daily rituals that I hope will have ripple effects throughout their lives. I haven't cooked any of the meals yet and I haven't read the whole thing (there's lots of content beyond the recipes - antidotes, quotes, and other inspiration), but from what I've seen so far and the inspiration I got from just browsing through, I can't wait to really dive in and implement some of the ideas. The Family Dinner also has a blog with recent posts (including recipes and table talk suggestions) here.
AROUND HERE Anna's big girl bed (a twin mattress set) was delivered yesterday and she spent the night in it last night. She'd been napping in a big girl bed at Kim's house and slept on a twin mattress at my parents last weekend. She was so excited to come home and find her new bed in place and all ready for her to climb into (and jump on a couple times of course). I went in to check on her before I went to bed around midnight and as I was re-arranging her so that her legs pointed toward the end of the bed she sat straight up in that wonderful-mid-sleep-state and said, "I got a big girl bed." Then she laid back down, snuggled right in, and went back to sleep.
AROUND HERE all she wants to wear is pink or purple and often both at the same time.
AROUND HERE the Harry Potter Knight Bus lego just arrived and Simon is loving driving it all around. He was playing with it on our back patio and when I told him to come inside he went through a whole routine of getting the guys ready to go just like in the movie, including saying where in our house he was headed. When he was putting it together he asked me how it was going to squish together like it does in the film.
AROUND HERE he has just a few more days of third grade. Seriously.
AROUND HERE the legislature just a few more weeks (hopefully) in the 2011 session.
AROUND HERE I've got lots of projects in progress (such is the creative life). My office is full of stuff I'm in the middle of: a class using my Italy photos from last year, compiling content from Yesterday & Today into an eBook, One Little Word prompts for upcoming months, Designer Digitals product ideas, a layout using the June Studio AE stamps, etc. My mind is full of things I want to do in the garden and around the house: painting, weeding, re-arranging.
AROUND HERE I'm excited about the Your Story Retreat next weekend. I'm looking forward to a new experience.
AROUND HERE my heart is happy for summer.



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Love this. Go Ali! Enjoy summer!!!
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i absolutely LOVE the idea of a TV-free summer. we are totally going to do that here. thanks for the awesome idea.
i just put the family dinners book on hold at the library. we always eat dinner together as a family too but some days it is a rather exhausting time. looking forward to reading this book. thanks for recommending it.
have a great weekend, ali!
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Hi Ali,
I am looking for the "everyday life" album you designed for Shutterfly. I can't find it on their site...did you discontinue it? Was hoping to use that to make a quick album. Thanks!
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Hi Stephanie - it's been phased out as they are now using what's called Custom Path. I've got a couple other books for them in the works.
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My now 15 year old son loved the bathtub. It was what we did when he needed calming as an infant. I remember many nights sitting on the bathroom floor while he played in the tub, making up stories, "swimming" and other fun stuff. He would stay in there until the water was freezing and his teeth were chattering!
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Love this idea of no tv for the summer and spend it with each other. I love eating dinner with no TV period. It gives everyone a chance to really talk to each other and just "be" with each other. Love the post! I am new to blogland and love coming across all these awesome blogs! :) Have a great weekend!
-Mandy
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Thanks Mandy - ans welcome!
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Your summer plans sound wonderful, those small kid days go so fast!
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Hi Ali,
Our daughters are only a month apart- I've been wodering about when to movce her to a big girl bed. She hasn't tried climbing out of the crib or anything yet- so I've been biding my time! Anyways, wondering if Anna tries to get out of bed and open her door when you leave the room? Thanks! Love your blog!
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Hi Stacy - she has gotten out of bed (she wasn't trying to climb out of her crib at all) and come to visit me ;) - usually that's a pretty good sign to me that she's not really tired enough to go to bed. It's been okay so far - another transition - she's excited about it but also exploring this new found freedom :).
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The only tv we watch is Survivor (which isn't on during the summer) and Antiques Roadshow.
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Have a great summer...
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You know the old Bob Hope show when he finished and closed his weekly show and he would sing "Thanks for the memory of sentimental verse, nothing in my purse And when the preacher said, 'for better or worse" How lovely it was"....Well Ali, thanks for the memories. My 37 y/o daughter would do the very same things on her bed. She would wear her "dancing" clothes and dance on her bed "stage". She still today dances like no one is watching. We always sat down for dinner and it led to a cohesive family unit. Of course they do not remember any of it!!!!! Bear that in mind, but I certainly do. I don't remember removing the TV except during the week, but back in the 70's and 80's there was only Sesame Street and Mr. Rogers.
Marilyn
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I just had to say, we gave up TV in December...best decision ever!! my girls are older, 16 & 12 and after some initial whining, they don't even mind. We still do Netfix but there is no random TV noise on all day and it's great!
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I love the idea of a no tv summer but I need better help in figuring out how to do it (I enjoy it too!!) and of course will admit those mornings when it is hard to get up and they are watching tv quietly that I would miss it. I have 3 boys 11,10,8 can someone shed some more light. I want to limit it and the nintendo games too but I don't think I could say no tv all summer..so just looking for some insight thanks!!
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We've been doing it for a week so far. I just said no more. When we get up in the morning rather than turning it on, the kids either read books, play legos or bring other toys to our table. We tun on music. Then they eat breakfast and then head outside. It's so easy when the tv is on to just let a couple hours go by...without the tv on I definitely need to be more pro-active in terms of suggesting other things to do. It's easier when the sun is out. If you want to limit I'd set a time during the day - say one hour per day - and then stick with it. Maybe make a list of other things they can do - read, play with whatever they like best, go outside, go swimming, play tag, ride bikes, etc.
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[...] my Awakening 4×6 Overlay set. Most of the journaling about Anna’s new bed came from the Around Here post last week and I added a bit more telling what happened the rest of the [...]
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Especially in favour of the no-tv stuff...we dont' even own one.
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