Learning To Ride

My daughter was also very hesitant and scared to learn to ride a bike. We lived in a cul-de-sac and she would practice in the cul-de-sac. One day all of the other kids in the neighborhood, and parents - maybe 10-13 of them - stood around her and cheered her on and yelled encouragement and clapped for her. She got it that day and never needed any more more help from Mom. Now she was never a very adventurous rider, always very careful, slow and deliberate - but she could ride with the other kids now! When she was 16, learning to drive was the same way, she was terrified and it took lots of encouragement and reassurance and now at 19 we call her the Grandma driver(but I am NOT complaining - I know she is a great driver!) very careful!

It's nice to see someone else who isn't pressuring their kid to hurry up and learn it all at once. My DD is five and still has training wheels and can't get the idea of peddling just right and some family members keep asking why she's not speeding around by now. Every child is NOT the same.

I love the fact that a rainbow showed up. :)

Slow and steady wins the race in life and when learning to ride a bike . He will master this skill soon I am sure. Thank you so very much for sharing this moment with us. The pictures immediately took me back to when my girls learned to ride their bikes.

Go Simon! Absolutely love the shot with rainbow! Thank you for sharing.

That a boy! Way to go Simon. I remember that time in my life. It is scary. You are very brave to get back on after your fall. I bet the chocolate cake was super yummy!!!

Great post! love the rainbow picture. You are an inspiration for capturing the moments.

LOVE all the positive praise!! Positive encouragement is so powerful - - words are so powerful!! I love seeing and hearing that not only Simon's parents give praise with words but with the tone in their voices, as well as, his aunt & uncle! LOVE IT!!

I wish everyone could do that - - especially for children!!!

Go Simon - - one day it will just happen!!! Love the rainbow - - such encouragement!! Go Simon!!!

Oh what a sweet story, you should pat yourselves on the back for being such supportive and understanding parents :) GORGEOUS photos!

That is so awesome. Go, Simon, Go!

Wonderful post - and way to go, Simon! It got the tears going here too....my son also has autism (Aspergers) and he so desperately wants to ride his bike without the training wheels. This is summer #3 we've taken them off, worked with him patiently, only to have a good cry at the end and begging for the trainers back on. I'm so glad to see another little boy bravely break through.

Oh hon we can relate. Our little boy is on the spectrum and has moderate hypotonia (low muscle tone), he just turned six and is still far away from riding a two wheeler without training wheels.

The photo with the rainbow is absolutely stunning! I feel like it sums up the story you have told here so well. If I was making a scrapbook page with your journaling here and just one photo: that is the photo I would pick.

Way to go SIMON!! He's one lucky little boy to have such wonderful support.

ali...you are such an amazing mother...learning and growing along with your son. you are such and inspiration..not just creatively but in life as well.

So glad Simon got back on the bike to try again. I so loved that period of teaching my children to ride a bike. It's almost like the first step of letting go...so sweet, brave and trusting they are. One second they can't and the next they are off, pedaling away with the wind in their faces.

Have you ever heard of a balance bike? It doesn't have pedals. My grandson had been struggling to ride his bike, but after riding the balance bike for a couple of days, he was able to master his big bike. Thank you for sharing your life.

I like much this one http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6141/5960194326_2d05b0269a.jpg ! It is quite simply FABULOUS !

With the pleasure of receiving you on my blog and of reading you:)

CONGRATS SIMON!!! Thank you for sharing Simon's accomplishment with us. It brought a tear to my eye. How many parents take for granted their children learning how to ride a bicycle? I know for me and my daughter we celebrate every single accomplishment because I know just how much she struggles. Through her sheer determination, with guidance from me and those who love her, she attains every single goal she sets her mind to. I remind her that Autism is only a disabililty if she let's it be. Autism makes her who she is, a unique person with a unique perspective of the world. We celebrate this accomplishment of Simon's with you!

I read your stuff all the time...your blog and two classes (OLW and On the Road) -- find it inspirational and educative and fun....and just had to comment because this is such a heartwarming story -- in word, photo, sentiment!

It's good to see another kid at 9 learning how to ride a bike. I was 9 when I learned also. Yay kiddo!