The Evolution Of My Story
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It's always been my goal to authentically share my story both in my scrapbooks and in this online space.
To me that means addressing the good, the bad, the beautiful, the successes, the challenges - the very real pieces of my life.
As many of you have noticed, and some have commented and emailed, Chris has been mostly absent for some time from the stories and photos. He has decided that he wants something different with his life and we are in the process of getting a divorce.
Chris continues to maintain an active role in the kid's lives.
There is nothing easy about this.
It's very hard and very stressful and very sad.
And yet, the story continues for all of us. For him and me. For the kids and me. For him and the kids. And there are many, many things I have to be thankful for in my life.
I've always maintained, and taught in my workshops, that not all stories need to be told.
But here, in this space, it's important to me that there's a general awareness of this change. This will allow me to more authentically share my story going forward.
A few months ago I asked for your prayers, your positive energy, your wishes of strength and peace, and your compassion. I'd humbly ask for your continued kindness as this specific chapter closes and new ones begin.
As you consider leaving a comment I would also humbly ask that you focus on something positive, compassionate and/or uplifting. Our heartfelt intent is to maintain a positive relationship as we move forward in our lives.
Wishing all of you, especially any of you who may be experiencing something similar within your own family, peace during the Christmas season.
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Ali, you are an amazing, courageous woman. Wishing you and your family peace this holiday season and in the new year. Thank you for your openness and willingness to share with all of us. You truly are an inspiration.
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Sending love and light for this holiday in what must be a particularly complicated season of life. I rarely comment but I am certain from what I read here regularly that you will handle this with grace and respect for your children. But I'm also sure it's not at all easy. xo
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I've said it so many times before, but it bears repeating...you are such an inspiration to me (and to so many others.)
My heart hurts for you, please know you are in my thoughts.
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Your honesty and courage to share is always refreshing. I wish you a peaceful new year filled with new opportunities. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
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You are truly an amazing woman. I wish you all peace and strength. Hugs
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There is so much in this life, our short walk here that we don't understand - but it has helped me tremendously to know that He has a plan and above where he weaves this beautiful perfect tapestry, knitting threads of us all together IT IS PERFECT and beautiful even tho down here we look up in question and wonder at all the knots, strings and mess that appears on the under side of that tapestry. We are women, we are enough ....softly roaring ;-)
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Praying for you and your sweet kids at this difficult time.
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i'm so incredibly sorry
my heart is broken for you
peace peace peace be with you
i'm praying for you
sending you hugs
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Ali, my heart and prayers are with you. May God surround you and your family with His presence, grace and peace that passes all understanding. Thank you for continuing to share your stories and journey with us even though you are going through this difficult time. You are much loved and appreciated. x
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Praying the Lord will bless you with His comfort, strength, and peace. With much love and hugs to you and your little angels.
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This is one of many bumps in the road that some must endure. You are loved by your community. You are an inspiration. This chapter is closing, you have many more chapters before you. Wishing happiness and peace for you and your family this holiday season.
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This makes me so sad. I admire your strong words and positive outlook. Peace and goodness to you in the New Year.
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I would just like to echo what other readers have expressed. You are strong, courageous and filled with light. It will shine and be strong through the clouds....Keep your face to the sun. Wishing you strength, peace and fulfillment.
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Merry Christmas and many prayers of a wonderful beginning to the new chapter of your life. I have always enjoyed your work, especially how you communicated the joys of everyday life. So Thank You for inspiring me and I hope to follow your successes for years to come.
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Ali, always remember that your life is filled with family and friends who love you, along with many, many people whom you don't even know, from around the world, who also care about you.
Thank you for sharing your life and your talents with us.
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Don't know you personally, but have faithfully followed your blog for a while now and sending positive mojo your way.
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Ali, my heart is breaking for you. I cannot imagine how difficult this must be for you, BUT as you have encouraged so many with your positive attitude & uplifting spirit, I know you will get through this & you will continue to glow as you always have. Praying for all four of you. Hugs to you, Simon & Anna. Hang in there girl! :)
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Ali, thank you for sharing your story with us.
You and your family are in my prayers.
I want to say do not give up, you can pray everyday and I recommend visit and buy this book http://lovedarestories.com/Default.aspx
At this situation the human vision it is not enough.
All my best wishes for a peaceful season.
PS: You can buy one book for Chris too.
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Dear Ali,
Thank you for always sharing, always leading by example, always being so real, so inspiring. I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm keeping you and your family in my prayers, you are so strong and so caring, you have touched so many people's lives through your blog. You problably don't even realize what a gift you are to others. God Bless you.
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Ali,
I've been wondering and thinking about you alot lately (after that last post that you mentioned 'having some problems')
I wish you all the very best.
Best wishes
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