The Evolution Of My Story

Ever since your post on asking for good vibes you and your family have been on my mind. I like so many others have great admiration and respect for you Ali. You are true throughtout your being. Your authinticity shines in everything you do. I want to thank you for being so vulnerable and honest through this challenging time in your life. Life is full of up and downs and many times it is those challenges that strenthens the very core of our soul. I wish you Simon, Anna and your family lots of love this Christmas season. I look forward to this new chapter in your lives with, strength, joy, abundace much love and peace. Paola

Ali, I am truly sorry to hear of your pain. You are a strong woman and one with awesome values for yourself and children. Keep them close and don't lose them. Your faith will help you through this along with all the wonderful prayers being sent your way. You have encouraged so many of us to look at life in the moment as we read your blog and your life story. Thank you for sharing your life with us. You are a unique and beautiful person. Stay you. Hugs and prayers.

Dear Ali,
You've always shown me that stories are there to be told, both good and bad and sometimes you've shown the good that has come from the bad. Every year you encourage us to start it anew with our word and to choose a word that would centre and inspire us for the year so I guess it's my turn to be all that for you. I wish you peace and harmony throught this Christmas season and the year ahead. May you, Chris, Simon and Anna find your own stories to tell.
Love
Anthea

Ali, leave it to you to share this with such honesty and authenticity and belief in the best. You are amazing. Like so many others have said I feel a closeness to you and your family because of your openness and generosity over the years. I did take a class with you in Tampa & reflect on you, your energy, your spirit very often. Speaking from experience as well, positive things will eventually come from even this sadness. I think back on my divorce 15 years ago (can it really be that long?!) and can see how many WONDERFUL, AMAZING things would definitely not have happened had the divorce not occurred. Hard to believe. I will continue to keep hold and your family in my positive intentions. Abundant peace to you, Ali.

Thank you for sharing. Although I don't have personal experience my little brother is going through one and it's hard on our small family. Prayers and happy holidays.

As one who's "been there", my heart goes out to you. Thank you for your honesty, even when it's difficult. You & your family will be in my prayers.

Hi Ali,
How are you doing?
Just want you to know how grateful I am for you… thank you for being open and genuine and kind. Thanks for sharing your stories. For OLW! And for replying to my occasional emails, that is so appreciated! As Melissa D. said, you are remarkable. I have learned so much from you… whether it be related to design or to life… choosing joy, being more transparent (it’s not easy for me!) but seeing that you are, I have so much respect for that and know that it is OK to do so.
I will pray for peace and wisdom … and yes, joy too, for you and Simon and Anna, as your life takes this new direction.

I too sensed something wrong. May God grant you both clear direction and hearts to heal and patience and courage as new days come. Most of all still looking and finding joy in each day.

Thinking of you Ali.

Grace and peace to you from God our Father and from the Lord Jesus Christ.

Nothing but hugs and support - even tho only virtual - coming your way Ali. This is only the start of a new chapter for you; a twist in the plot. Hearts are bound to ache when life shifts in such an unplanned way. May you find strength in yourself, your children, and your family - as you communicate so well in your scrapbooking. Love to you and Simon and Anna.

Reading your blog brings much understanding and joy. I thank you for being so real.....you are such a lovely and fine woman...take care as you begin a new journey !! Merry Christmas..

I'm so sorry to hear this, Ali. My heart breaks for you. I now you are a strong, positive woman that will get through this with the support of your family and friends.
May you feel God's peace near you during this difficult time.

God bless you and your family. Merry Christmas!

(((HUGS)))

Sarah

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Years ago I shared an office with another person and one day she was having a friendly conversation on the phone. I thought it was her best friend. When she closed the conversation, I realized it was her ex-husband. I was very surprised. She said they were friends but just couldn't live together anymore. They maintained their friendship because it was important to give their son the same love and positive attitudes he had before the relationship broke down. I so admire this friend for this ability. I wish the same for you.

I love reading your posts and I look forward to checking out what new pages you have created. You are a very special person and have brought joy to my day when I've had a horrible day. I hope for joy and happiness for you and your family.

i know that you will be fine, you are a strong woman and mother. a new story is awaiting you Ali, take hold of it. i will pray for you and your family. take comfort in the christmas season and its true meaning.

Ali, I'm sorry to hear about the news. I will be praying for all four of you as you transition into your new and different lives. Your children will be ok because they have amazing parents and you and Chris will be ok because you are both loving and caring people. I wish you a peaceful Christmas and may your family bring you comfort during these difficult times.

When I met my husband, he was divorced with a 10 year old son. We maintained a good relationship with his ex-wife and now 17 years later, she is part of all our family events - big and small. She spends all the holidays with us. Blended families are not only possible but definitely worth the effort! Praying for God's grace be with during this time of evolution for your family.

What ever doesnt kill you makes you stronger.. Strong words but indeed an end of a rel.. Doesnt mean the end all.. Days will pass and the pains n hurts may linger but it will pass.. A lot of new learnings along the way and youll realise .. You got throughi it all.. Draw strength from your children and soon youll be happy again.. God bless you this xmas...

I have been thinking about your word light. You may be in a dark tunnel right now but there is a light at the end. You will be so ok.... You are OK!

It is so interesting how our words evolve. Someday I will send you a note about my word. Free It turned out to be a hard word with a life long message.

You and your family are in my prayers.

I come to your blog for inspiration, not just for scrapbooking, but for life as well. Even in one of lifes toughest times, you are an inspiration. Even through your pain and sorrow, you are carrying on with your traditions and telling your story...someday, that will mean more than anything to your children as they look back on this. My heart goes out to you and your family, my prayers are with you.