The Evolution Of My Story
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It's always been my goal to authentically share my story both in my scrapbooks and in this online space.
To me that means addressing the good, the bad, the beautiful, the successes, the challenges - the very real pieces of my life.
As many of you have noticed, and some have commented and emailed, Chris has been mostly absent for some time from the stories and photos. He has decided that he wants something different with his life and we are in the process of getting a divorce.
Chris continues to maintain an active role in the kid's lives.
There is nothing easy about this.
It's very hard and very stressful and very sad.
And yet, the story continues for all of us. For him and me. For the kids and me. For him and the kids. And there are many, many things I have to be thankful for in my life.
I've always maintained, and taught in my workshops, that not all stories need to be told.
But here, in this space, it's important to me that there's a general awareness of this change. This will allow me to more authentically share my story going forward.
A few months ago I asked for your prayers, your positive energy, your wishes of strength and peace, and your compassion. I'd humbly ask for your continued kindness as this specific chapter closes and new ones begin.
As you consider leaving a comment I would also humbly ask that you focus on something positive, compassionate and/or uplifting. Our heartfelt intent is to maintain a positive relationship as we move forward in our lives.
Wishing all of you, especially any of you who may be experiencing something similar within your own family, peace during the Christmas season.
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Keeping you and your family in my prayers. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas.
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You are going to be just fine! But, you already know that! You put so, so much good into this world that it can do nothing but come back to you! Sending you positive energy and LIGHT!
All the best to you and your babies as you move forward!
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Ali, there's nothing I can say that hasn't already been expressed beautifully by so many other women here. But please know that you're in my thoughts during this time. I'm confident you will pull through successfully with your positive energy & zest for life, as we all witness through your stories, words, & photos. I hope the new year brings you new reasons to love & laugh and experiences to cherish. Sending love and hugs across the miles to you and the kids.
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I wish you all the best during this time of change and renewal. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Many blessings to you and yours.Happy holidays!
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Drawn back again to say I lit a candle for you today, wishing you joy and light and hope always.
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I'm so sorry to hear this, but as many others have commented, your willingness to share the good and the not so good with us is a great privilege. Your dignity and grace are evident through your blog, and I will be praying for you all as this new chapter in your lives begins. I like your joy quotation, here's another I also like: "The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly."
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I have sensed that something has been going on and have been thinking and praying for you for some time. I will continue to keep you and the kids in my prayers. You are a very strong person and I am sure you will come out an even stronger person in the end. God bless you!!!!
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I remember the post where you said things between you and Chris were not good. I have been praying for you ever since. I will continue to do so. I pray you feel God's love for you in a special way this Christmas season.
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Peace, strength and compassion to you and Chris as your family moves forward.
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I'm so sorry, Ali. I hope you and the kids are OK through this transition. It's never easy...
Hugs and prayers for you and your family.
lise
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Thank you for your honesty and for trusting us with something hard. I and so many that have commented here today admire your person as much as your artistry. You have strength beyond your knowing and a community around you that cares deeply about you and your family. We hold you all close in thoughts, prayers, and love.
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Your daily posts are an inspiration for my in-box (which is why I receive them at WORK!!).
I am doing the best I have ever done with keeping up. My motto has been keep it simple, and tell the story. The best part is the page layouts that you made, which have kept me on track. It has been challenging (I work about 60 hours/week), but rewarding. Thanks for the reminder about the little pocket page protectors, I have neglected those in the last few days.
Good luck with your schedule next week!
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love, and peace, and caring to all of you. may you feel surrounded with support and encouragement as these new changes unfold.
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I wish you and your family the best as you move forward with your lives.
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You have been in my prayers for awhile now and I'll keep you and your family there during this closing of a chapter. I hope that you find a little peace and joy in the season and that life is kind to you, Simon and Anna. I pray that the new chapter is started with as smooth a transition as possible and that you can see that life will hold brighter and lovelier days for you all in the future. Hugs from a stranger who's been there and done that...
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Your grace and dignity continue to inspire me, Ali. Wishing you peace and comfort during this season. Take a little time to take care of YOU.
I am grateful that you have a wonderful family who love and support you. I hope you can feel how much you are loved and cared about by all of your blog followers.
You continue to have my thoughts and prayers. ooox
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In my heart, as I read your blog each day, I anticipated seeing this post. Previously reading that the two of you weren't seeing eye-to-eye, the lack of stories and photos including Chris, the 'Thursday' rountine PL shot...were all flags for me.
Your honesty through this chapter of your life is inspiring and amazing. Your children will look back and admire just how perfectly you've told your story. New chapters in life are difficult as you know. But I'm also sure you know that -you don't know how wonderful change can be until you do it-. There are so many awesome experiences lined up for you, Simon and Anna in the future. I know you will embrace them.
Wishing you Peace, Calmness, and Rest this holiday season.
Merry Christmas Ali.
love, lisa
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stay positive and keep your head held high. you and your family are in my thoughts. *
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Ali, I know we don't know each other but my heart is breaking for your family. I'm so glad that you are going into this with a positive attitude and I sincerely hope that everything works out as well as it can. You are a brave and inspirational woman and I wish you the strength to get through this troubling time. Remember to take care of yourself throughout all of this - no need to be Superwoman.
Our prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Thank you for sharing the real you regardless of how wonderful or painfully raw it may be - you are an inspiration to us all.
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Ali, you are a remarkable woman. Thank you for all that you are and for you're willingness to share your life so freely others. Even though we've never met, you have been a blessing in my life. Blessings to you during this difficult time.
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