Play By Play | Girl's Weekend
Tags:Simon asked to go spend some time with my parents at the coast so Anna and I had a whole weekend by ourselves.
I'm actually pretty sure this was our first weekend all on our own. It was pretty great. Great to just hang out with her, great to let her pick out things to do and watch and eat, great to listen to her laugh and great to just have her upsets to deal with vs. two.
Here's a run down of our adventures:
FRIDAY NIGHT | Ate mac & cheese and watched Babes In Toyland (Katie picked it up for us a the library earlier in the day). I let her sleep in bed with me and we read a couple stories before she finally fell asleep and I read until I finished Mockingjay.
SATURDAY |George the cat wanted to wake up earlier than Anna and I and he kept walking over us and purring really loud right in our faces. We finally woke up and Anna asked to watch The Princess & The Frog on my phone. I went downstairs to grab it, fed the animals, picked up my laptop, the newspaper, and some goldfish + apple juice and headed back upstairs. We lounged in bed for the duration of the movie.
Stripped the beds, carried the bedding downstairs to the laundry room and started that process.
Made some eggs and toast and Anna played legos and washed dishes in her little play kitchen (which is basically in our kitchen). I unloaded and re-loaded the dishwasher, cleaned the pantry, kept the laundry moving, cleaned out a couple drawers and she "helped" and chatted and worked on her own dishes and drawer.
We drew cats. And ate more goldfish and some Skittles. We watched Babes In Toyland again (I did a bit more sorting in the kitchen during the second half). Right near the end of the movie she had a melt-down, hit Lily, and ended up in her bedroom for some "quiet" time.
I left her up there for 20 mins or so and went to check on her and she was quietly playing with her Playmobil people.
We cooked together. Sausage and bean soup. To have someone interested in the food being prepared was awesome. Soundtrack was Coldplay's Mylo Xyloto. We ate together (she had yogurt, oranges and a couple bites of the soup). Soundtrack was Dave Matthews on Pandora.
Did the dishes. Anna played doctor with one of her barbies. I love listening to her stories and conversations.
And then popcorn. And a cup of milk for her. And a couple rounds of Olivia on the DVR.
A meltdown on the way to bed. Stall tactics. Lots of crying. I get her in her PJ's and get her in her bed. In and out of her room a couple times in-between making my bed and she finally gets that she's in there for the night. I get ready for bed, check on her again and turn off the light, take a shower and start reading 1000 Gifts.
SUNDAY | When she wakes up we repeat Saturday mornings ritual. Iphone movie, banana muffin (+ a few crumbs) and reading the paper in my bed.
Bath-time for Anna in the big tub.
A trip to Sears to deal with a microwave that's becoming an expensive fix (with a quick stop for a latte & kid's hot cocoa - only she was very insistent that it was a "girl's" hot cocoa vs. a "kid's"). The microwave is one of those that's built in above an oven and it's only sold as a set with the oven. Awesome.
A stop to look for a new coffeepot, two stops at thrift stores. Come home with four new barbies, including two that have pink and purple hair and sparkly bodies. All barbies get a very good bath in the kitchen sink.
Lunch of left-over mac & cheese and strawberries.
A couple Dora episodes for Anna and magazine reading time for me in-between laundry folding sessions. Lots of "potty talk" - right on target for a freshly minted three-year-old.
Head outside for some weeding and picking up dog poop and dreaming about what that space could be. Thinking this may be the year that I really invest some personal time in that space.
Play soccer. Shoot a couple baskets out in the driveway. Lots of laughing. Clean up the yard stuff we got out.
Feed the animals.
Inside for edamame. We both love it. Black Butte Porter for me and apple juice for her. Watch a little TV.
Carry the baskets full of clean laundry upstairs and she helps me put clothes away in Simon's room, in her room and in my room. Her interest in domestic stuff makes those sorts of chores just a bit more fun. She picks out her jammies. I help her put the top on and she does the bottoms.
She crawls up into my bed for some snuggle time and falls asleep playing a matching game on my phone.
I finish up this post, read a bit more of the paper, and then say a really big thank you prayer.

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I loved reading this. :) Especially the parts about the melt downs. My daughter will be three at the end of March. It's good to know that her behavior is not unique! ;)
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Beautiful weekend. 1000 Gifts was one of my favorite books last year. I read it twice, once with friends. Savor it.
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That sounds about as perfect as a weekend gets. :)
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What a perfectly fantastic weekend Ali. So fun even with the melt downs
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So So Sweet! My daughter is 11 months old and I'm so looking forward to those special moments when she can interact much more with me.
Thanks for sharing!
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Nothing could be better then this! I miss these times. Mine is all grown up...cherish the moments..love the pic!
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I love that you had a girls weekend. I love that one on one time with the kids. You never know how long they will want to be with you so you have to enjoy each & every moment that you can. Sounds like there were plenty of smiles to be had by everyone.
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Sounds like a great weekend. I am glad you got that time alone with Anna. My husband left on Sunday to go out of town but then my daughter got invited to a sleepover since there is no school today. I was hoping to have some time alone with her for the day. Well we have two more evenings anyway.
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this is so very awesome!
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Oh having that one on one time just cruising sounds awesome.It's good for the soul. Great to see you had that time together and Simon would have loved going to your parents. Everyone so happy.
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goldfish? In our house 'goldfish' as sliced tinned peaches!
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Ahhh, now that makes more sense - in our house goldfish are, well, goldfish!! I couldn't imagine why you were taking them into your bed, and then later on, omg, eating them?!!! They must be an American brand, lol!!
Love the stories, love the memory keeping, thanks for sharing xox
They are little yellow crackers shaped like goldfish :).
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Do you like reading one thousand gifts? I read that last year and absolutely love it!
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what a great weekend!!! i can't wait to hear what you think of 1000 gifts. it is an incredible book!!
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How fun to have some girl time! I read 1000 gifts in December, and it's the reason my One Little Word for 2012 is "gift" :)
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Love your play-by-play, Ali! Fun times. Hope Simon had fun too!
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I cant wait to do things like this with my little girl. Shes 10 Months now, as much as I enjoy her now I will enjoy the little moments we have together cooking, cleaning, and shopping =)
This post reminded me of the movie Marley and Me. Where there's that portion of the movie where he just reads all these little stories.
Cute!
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I can't wait to have some alone time with my girls!
Have you ever seen the other "Babes in Toyland"? The one with Laurel and Hardy? (It's also called "March of the Wooden Soldiers"). It's a family tradition in our house to watch it at Thanksgiving. It's a cute movie, but the Bogeymen might be a little scary for young kids. Still, one to watch someday!
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Sounds like a fabulous weekend. I'm just beginning to get used to some one on one time with my youngest (my eldest is in kindy). I love that you documented your play by play, I'm sure Anna would love to read it when she's older. And how awesome that Simon asked for some time with his Grandparents.
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I absolutely love this dairy. I have a little girl that is 2.5 (today!) and this sounds so familiar, and lovely. :_)
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Love to hear about the girls weekend. I have a 12 year old girl who is a competitive swimmer. Our girls weekends are all over the southeast as we travel for meets. While it is not at home, I always look forward to this time together. We leave in March for 3.5 days to Greensboro for Sectionals and I am already looking forward to that time with just her!
Also love the new Coldplay. Going to see them in Atlanta. Great selection of music :-))
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