I Like It When You Laugh
Tags:I came across this image and quote on Pinterest the other day and it was one of those moments where I read it and everything in my world stopped and it got really quiet.
A flood of times that I remember as fun swept over me. Those times when I was delightfully alive.
Yesterday morning I dropped Simon off in his first period classroom (he asked me to walk with him in there - I'll take it as long as I can get it my friends) and he wanted me to stand on a balance ball-thing they have on the ground (here's a photo of him standing on it a few days ago). I did it and I looked at him and smiled really big and laughed out loud and he looked right back at me and said, "Ah, I like it when you laugh."
I can remember Chris saying that to me in years past. "I like it when you laugh." It was always a wake-up call and a reminder to lighten-up and let go.
I've also found myself saying this to Aaron from time to time when I catch him in a moment of delight. An unrehearsed, uninhibited smile (with dimples no less). To him I say, "Man, I love it when you smile."
Katie read this post earlier today and promptly told me that I laugh around her all the time. I think that's a very good thing.
The weight of life can be heavy at times. I can be way-too-serious and/or stuck in my own ways of how I think things should be done or relentlessly "in my head." I can also be really, really fun. Yes, I remember this too.
These people I care very, very much about are telling me something and I know what it feels like to see it in someone else.
I'm listening.

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Love this post! Thanks for reminding all of us. Have a fabulous and smiley day!!
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thank you ali- for reminding us to live life and laugh a little :)
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:) I always think of you with a smile on your face. years and years and years of smiles.
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Paolo, I just wanted to say that I know you are one of Ali's oldest/best friends and this was one of the best compliments that I think I have ever heard! Now I know why you are so special to her!
Ah, love you - excited to see you soon.
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love this ali. thanks for posting.
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You are awesome!
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Thanks for sharing this Ali... sometimes life gets in the way of laughter... but yes, I'm listening too!
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Awesome post Ali! It reminds me to be in the moment more!
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Ali you are so inspirational. So raw and so true. many thanks
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I love to laugh. I prefer comedies when it comes to tv shows and movies. Often when I'm doing office work or cooking I'll pull up bloopers or mixed funny scenes from my favourite shows to listen to in the background. I love that we can now pause live tv, so when I'm laughing so loud I can't hear what's going on I can pause it and not miss anything. Laughter really is good medicine. Of course tv is not the only thing I laugh at. Nothing like being with family or friends and just laughing until your stomach aches.
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Thanks so much for this post. Just what I needed today.
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It is true, being me is so fun and getting to know me bring love into my life. I wish this for all to take this challenge! Have a great sleep everyone!
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Beautifully said. Thank you. :)
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What an excellent reminder on what's important in life!
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Love this... A much needed reminder for me! :)
I try to laugh whenever I can, and smile as much as possible too, but sometimes I get super serious as well, and it's never as fun!
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thank you for sharing, my eyes welled up with tears reading how your son said he "loved it when you laugh". such a beautiful moment. and i love that quote - it's so true.
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Find your joy!
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Thank you for the reminder! Much needed. Life is too serious these days around my home.
That balance thingy? It's a Bosu Ball. I am jealous; you make it sound like you just hopped on and stood there! Back in the days of seeing a personal trainer, he would have me stand on one - OMG. My balance is SOOO so very bad. Bosu Ball is not one of my favorite things!
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You are so brave.
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Resonates on so many levels. Thanks for sharing.
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:)
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