One Little Word® 2015
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My One Little Word® for 2015 is give.
The process of choosing a word, or letting it choose me as is often the case, is always interesting. For me it often starts around October - words begin popping up here and there via reading or conversations or overhearing something on the radio. I tend to do a lot of listening and thinking and trying each one on for a minute or two or a couple days or longer.
I know there is no perfect word, there's only choices and paths and possibilities.
This year the word give showed up in October if I remember correctly. It came in more like a whisper - some years my words have been so loud as if they were making it so they couldn't be ignored.
Give began with the idea of giving to others and the question of what is it that I currently give. I'm pretty sure it was sparked by my trip to Washington DC to attend the ONE Campaign's AYA Girls And Women's Summit. There was a shift in my thoughts and a vivid reminder that it's not just about me and my own stuff - it was such a powerful opportunity to reflect on my place in the larger world and become educated on some of the issues facing girls and women in Africa.
Over the last few months since it first made itself known, my thoughts about the word give and what I want to focus on in 2015 has evolved which is something I always welcome as I choose a new word. Give, for me, is so much more than the process of "handing something over."
Give love. Give kindness. Give time. Give patience. Give to others. Give to myself.
On a certain level, the word give for me is rooted in connection and openness and awareness and willingness.What do the people around me need? How can I connect with them through the process of giving of myself? Over the last year I've lost some of myself in work and the transitions and I want more than anything to reconnect to the things/people/places I most value.
Another level/definition of the word give is the idea of bending and being flexible. It's a nod to living in the gray areas and working on lessening my constant grip on the black and whiteness of things. My ability to be black and white is at the same time very much a strength in some areas and a weakness in others. Discerning the difference between when to give and when to hold firm is something I'd like to explore this year.
The third level of give for me is in giving to myself. Giving time to myself. Giving patience to myself. Giving kindness to myself. Giving love to myself. I like the combination of the connection with others and the connection with myself. It's an opportunity to fine tune and get clear and make choices that align with what I care about most.
I'm also interested in exploring give up, give away, and give in - all three of which I see as positive steps/ideas vs. the negative way they could be taken.
I'm looking forward to experiencing a new journey with a new word in 2015.
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PSS | Listen to Elise Cripe and I chat about One Little Word® on her latest podcast episode here.
SHARE YOUR WORD THE COMMENTS
I’d love to read what word you’ve chosen or are considering for 2015. In the comments feel free to simply leave your word as your comment or write a bit about why you are choosing this word. Next week I’ll combine all the words into a single post – it's become tradition and super inspiring to see all the words in one place.
If you’re new to the concept of One Little Word®, you can read some of my previous posts here: 2007, 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013 and 2014.
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My word for 2015 is "BELIEVE" as in "I BELIEVE" I can do ...
2015 is my year to believe that I can do anything as long as I believe.
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My word for 2015 is JOY. I had another word picked out, and then JOY picked me! 2015 will be a year full of challenges, excitement and also some heartbreaks I can see on the horizon. I hope that in all that the new year has to bring, I will face each situation with JOY... I want to cultivate the character of JOY in my life, not just the emotion.
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My word for 2015 is LOVE...to love more, focus on those I love, to love myself!
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JOY -- as I've been thinking of 2014, I feel like I lost my joy. This year, I'm taking it back! To find joy in the little things, in the big things, in the everyday. To bring joy to people. To have joy in who God created me to be. I want joy to seep into every part of who I am.
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My word is "MAGIC." Magic is something you make and I am ready to cook up some magical miracles.
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My OLW for 2015 is quite literally a little word: it is "ME." I am a working mom who needs to make self-care a real priority....fast! I take great care of my husband, child, and our household, yet find myself going to work with a wet head, no makeup, and having eaten no breakfast. Everyone else (including the dog) gets groomed regularly, and I can't tell you the last time I got a haircut. I am at the heaviest (non-pregnant) weight of my life, and I am starting to realize some health issues arising as a result of the weight. I am a painter and I haven't picked up a paintbrush in over a year. The list goes on. It is time to dedicate some real attention to ME and develop self-care routines so that I can present my best self, before I lose myself. (Hoping Ali repeats the self-care prompt!) Looking forward to 2015!
9 hours later...
I slept on it, and a word came to me in a loud, strong whisper: HEAL. A lot of the "letting myself go" that I alluded to above has to do with the fact that I am still grieving the loss of my father, who died a little over a year ago. So, I think I'm changing my word to HEAL, with ME as my secondary/secret word.
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I've thought about doing "one little word" for many years, and this year I've finally committed. My word is CARE. Care for my family, care for my house, care for others by remembering birthdays, etc, be careful about how I speak and how I live... lately I feel like I live a little carelessly and I want to shape myself up. I'm excited for this challenge this year.
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My word is 'present'. After beating cancer in 2013 and then dealing with what chemo did to my body in 2014 I am tired of thinking of the past and worrying about my future. I just want to spend this year being 'present' in every moment/day and being thankful for what I have right now.
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Beautiful thoughts...wishing you a wonderful year.
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My OLW for 2015 is focus. I feel it's an extension of my word for this year, mindful, and I want to explore it more.
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STRIVE is my word.
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DECIDE
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My word for 2015 is CHERISH
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My word for 2015 will be LIGHT ... I will be striving for lightness of heart and mind, lighter in weight, lighter in posessions, more light in my day (I tend to hibernate in my dark apartment too much) and looking for light with my camera. Here's to 2015 everyone :) Best of luck with your word!
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My word is change. 2014 was full of unexpected change, which resulted in unexpected growth but left little room for intentional growth. 2015 will be full of intentional change and moving forward with my life!!
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My word for 2015 is joy. I was reading my Bible a few weeks ago and came across this verse: "I pray that God, the source of all hope, will infuse your lives with an abundance of joy and peace in the midst of your faith..."(Romans 15:13). Although I have much to be thankful for, I have a tendency to see the glass half empty. I want to see and celebrate the joys, both big and little, everyday. I want my life to be characterized by an abundance of joy, even in the face of challenging circumstances. I want to bring joy to my family, friends and co-workers. I want to make a conscious choice to engage in life-giving, joy-bringing activities, to use the time I've been given more wisely.
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My Word for 2015 is Deliberate. Best put in words by Thoreau..."I wished to live deliberately." I want to live deliberately, with conscious thought for how I'm living and what I'm putting out into the world. This word seems to fit in so many ways right now.
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That's my word too! Would love to connect!
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My word for 2015 is EMBRACE. I turn 40 in March and I have decided to focus on embracing who I am and who I want to be. Embrace my story. Embrace my creative side. Embrace my inner chef. Embrace my geeky side. Embrace my struggles. Embrace those around me. I can't wait to get started.
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My word is FORWARD. After 4 years of being in transition I'm ready to move forward and see where the momentum takes me. This is my 6th year with OLW and I'll enjoy the journey.
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My OLW is notice. I debated between grow and notice for a long time, but in the end decided that if I am living with notice, I will also grow.
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Best. Best me. Best efforts. Best life. (Coming from a year where my word was 'courage' to move on from an abusive relationship and face life as a Single Mum). Best. Best. Best. Do the best I can do at all times. For my two littles.
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