One Little Word® 2015
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My One Little Word® for 2015 is give.
The process of choosing a word, or letting it choose me as is often the case, is always interesting. For me it often starts around October - words begin popping up here and there via reading or conversations or overhearing something on the radio. I tend to do a lot of listening and thinking and trying each one on for a minute or two or a couple days or longer.
I know there is no perfect word, there's only choices and paths and possibilities.
This year the word give showed up in October if I remember correctly. It came in more like a whisper - some years my words have been so loud as if they were making it so they couldn't be ignored.
Give began with the idea of giving to others and the question of what is it that I currently give. I'm pretty sure it was sparked by my trip to Washington DC to attend the ONE Campaign's AYA Girls And Women's Summit. There was a shift in my thoughts and a vivid reminder that it's not just about me and my own stuff - it was such a powerful opportunity to reflect on my place in the larger world and become educated on some of the issues facing girls and women in Africa.
Over the last few months since it first made itself known, my thoughts about the word give and what I want to focus on in 2015 has evolved which is something I always welcome as I choose a new word. Give, for me, is so much more than the process of "handing something over."
Give love. Give kindness. Give time. Give patience. Give to others. Give to myself.
On a certain level, the word give for me is rooted in connection and openness and awareness and willingness.What do the people around me need? How can I connect with them through the process of giving of myself? Over the last year I've lost some of myself in work and the transitions and I want more than anything to reconnect to the things/people/places I most value.
Another level/definition of the word give is the idea of bending and being flexible. It's a nod to living in the gray areas and working on lessening my constant grip on the black and whiteness of things. My ability to be black and white is at the same time very much a strength in some areas and a weakness in others. Discerning the difference between when to give and when to hold firm is something I'd like to explore this year.
The third level of give for me is in giving to myself. Giving time to myself. Giving patience to myself. Giving kindness to myself. Giving love to myself. I like the combination of the connection with others and the connection with myself. It's an opportunity to fine tune and get clear and make choices that align with what I care about most.
I'm also interested in exploring give up, give away, and give in - all three of which I see as positive steps/ideas vs. the negative way they could be taken.
I'm looking forward to experiencing a new journey with a new word in 2015.
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PSS | Listen to Elise Cripe and I chat about One Little Word® on her latest podcast episode here.
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I’d love to read what word you’ve chosen or are considering for 2015. In the comments feel free to simply leave your word as your comment or write a bit about why you are choosing this word. Next week I’ll combine all the words into a single post – it's become tradition and super inspiring to see all the words in one place.
If you’re new to the concept of One Little Word®, you can read some of my previous posts here: 2007, 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013 and 2014.
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HERE
This is the first time I've really picked a work to think about for the whole year but 'here' jumped out at me as soon as I considered the idea. Lately I've found myself frequently planning or worrying or fussing over things that aren't too important at the moment and probably wont be too important in the future either. I want to remind myself to keep my mind in the here and now, to enjoy and observe my growing daughter, to spent time with my family, and to not worry about things that aren't important right now.
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FORWARD. I am ready to move forward with my life, to stop dwelling on the past and the way my life used to be. I am ready to move forward with building my new house and moving out of state. I am ready to move forward with my life and with my art.
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AWAKE
AWAKE early in the morning to celebrate "me" so I can be awake and aware of my place and others throughout the rest of the day, become re-energized.
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My word is DISCIPLINED. As in "I need to be more disciplined in all I have to do, need to do and want to do. I have set some goals about how I want to live in 2015 and how I want to treat others and myself. I must be disciplined so that I can reach not only my goals-but really my full potential! That is the goal!
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CHOICE for me. I want to be more conscious and accepting of the choices I make, and be brave in recognising that to achieve goals I need to change the choices I make.
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HOPE
This word came to me very clearly a month or so ago. My reasons are huge and personal as I head into some big changes. I'm looking forward to what blessings hope will bring to me and where hope will take me and my family in 2015!
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Radiant.
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GUMPTION - with a dash of SPARK!
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SIMPLIFY
I've had my word literally screaming at me for 4 months! My life has become crazy busy since September and I need to make my whole life more simple!
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RENEW
Some things have happened in my life lately that caused some serious rethinking. Some things need little tweaks and others, really big tweaks. I had a list of about 7 words starting early November and have been narrowing down the list, until this week, when RENEW really hit me.
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About a year ago I read in Real Simple about a poet who requires each student to choose a tree on campus and observe it daily throughout the semester. I added TREE to my running list of possible words and have chosen it for 2015. I am anxious to have adventures with this word. Hopefully we will be able to visit California and see the giant sequoias.
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HARMONY - I need it so much! It will call for changes. Lot of changes!! And if I can reach it (my word), it will all be well worth it. My initial word was Peace but our Elf, called Harmony, brought a wind of change in our family as she didn't like fighting, yelling and crying. So that word has been with us for a little less than 3 weeks now and I decided to stick with it. Hello Harmony! :)
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S-upport
E-ncourage
L-ove
F-orgive
I decided to be more focus on my self this year...and it is not about being selfish...but about developing myself, find out my limits and borders, knowing myself better...
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This is so lovely - blessings on your journey of nurturing your self.
Wooo, same word! :-) I thought about it possibly sounding a little selfish. But it's definitely not. I totally agree with your comments - about developing yourself, finding your limits, and knowing yourself better. Awesome.
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Magic. Blogged about it this morning - http://katyat34.typepad.com/blog/2014/12/2015-one-little-word-magic.html
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Joann
Attitude! Having a positive attitude vs. a negative one in life affects you and others in
life. As I get older, I'm going to have a good attitude starting in 2015!
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You gave me my 2015 word on Facebook :) ... ENOUGH and the two sides to that coin ... Best of the best wishes to you and yours for 2015, Ali!
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PERSPECTIVE which is a follow on from moment this year. I want to work on the way I see things.
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Rejuvenate is my OLW for 2015. After having two surgeries in the past 8 weeks I need some rejuvenation...Ready to rejuvenate my whole life-mind, body and soul. Still have some work to do with my 2014 OLW of Simplify. So they will go hand in hand this year. So ready for 2014 to be behind me, begin 2015 and REJUVINATE~
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THRIVE.
I have had a tough year physically and recently had a resolution to my illness so I am looking forward to thriving in 2015. Thriving physically, creatively, relationally, and spiritually.
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COMMIT.
I was going back and forth between this and renew. 2014 was a very trying year and realizing that I wasn't where I was hoping to be, initially I was feeling 'renew' - but I realized that my life didn't need to be renewed. just refreshed... and that comes from commitment to myself, to my goals, to those around me.
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