Peace be with you Grandma.
Tags:My Grandma Cathy (seen in the 2004 layout above) passed away on Friday evening after living a very fantastic full life.
Grandma Cathy was my Mom's Mom. Awesome, independent, vivacious, confident - all words that come to mind when I think of her. She was a super classy dresser and she gave the best hugs. She and my Grandpa always had the coolest drink stirrers in their bar area. She kept an immaculate home: tidy and organized and the most formal of any of my relatives. The ticking of a grandfather clock and the crazy sound of a cuckoo clock will always generate thoughts of my Grandparents. Her simple vinaigrette salad dressing is still one of the best I have ever tasted.
As a child one of my favorite things to do when visiting my Grandma was to have tea + cookies with her. I always felt really special and grown-up during those times. She had a delicate white cat teapot (which now lives with me) that poured the best cups of tea in the whole wide world.
One of the things I will treasure most about my Grandma is that she was such an awesome Mom to my Mom. I benefit from their relationship daily because she taught my Mom how to be a good Mom (through her words, actions, kindness, example, etc) and a good friend. My Mom and Grandma were close as adults, just as my Mom and I are close. My Mom means the world to me and I am so very lucky to have her in my life.
Thank you Grandma for giving me such a wonderful Mom.
I also want to share with you a very special email that Chris sent to my Mom on Saturday evening:
We all miss you Grandma. I am going to have a special cup of tea in that fantastic cat teapot to celebrate you today. Give Grandpa a big hug from each one of us.

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My thoughts are with you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Sorry to read about that, and I was really touched by your post.
This is something that is inevitable. But thanks God He gaves us the power to remember... and keeping these memories is a blessing.
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I'm so sorry for your loss....sounds like Grandma Cathy was one special person :)
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With a tear rolling down my face after reading this....I just want to say I am so sorry for your loss.
My dd, Amanda, is 8 and often asks questions about my mom, whom she never met. My mom passed 11 days before my wedding, almost 14 years ago.
I am so glad you have those pictures and memories of your grandma. How wonderful to have been able to share your son with her! You must have so many wonderful memories. Hold them close. My thoughts are with your family!
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I am so sorry for your loss, Ali!
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I am so sorry for your loss. Peace to you and your family.
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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
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So sorry for your loss Ali. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Ali,
As I was reading your post about your grandma, I welled up with tears when you mentioned the tea you had with her was the best in the whole wide world. Those 3 little words are were written in such a pure child like way and I feel so happy for you to have had such wonderful experiences with her. I never knew any of my gradparents. I wonder what it would have been like to grow up with them in my life. I always imagined it to be wonderful.
I know I would be a different person than I am now, but how?
I also loved that you mentioned the letter that Chris wrote about Simon, I wept while I read that also. You seem to have a very close and spiritual family. So Congratulations for being a very good grand-daughter of a very wonderful grandmother!
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ali-
you said, "Her simple vinaigrette salad dressing is still one of the best I have ever tasted." i share the same memory of my grandmother... she made that salad everytime we were there for dinner. her secret ingredient was fresh avocado. :) thanks for sharing your memories. it brought a smile to my face knowing that we all have so much in common with those we love!
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Hearing about your grandmother has inspired me to start working on an album about mine. I have so many wonderful memories about my grandmothers who were very different from each other yet similar in several ways.
My heart goes out to you because the loss is never easy. What a great blessing you had her in your life for so long.
Let us always honor the women who created and molded us into who we are today.
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What a wonderful tribute to your Grandmother to have a cup of tea in her teapot in honor of her life. She is sure to be tipping her cup up in Heaven.
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Ali, condolences to you and your family. How special that you have captured times with her and Simon together. Enjoy that cup of tea. She's smiling down on you :)
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My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family during this time.
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what a beautiful post ali.... *hugs*
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My 95-year old Grandma [also Mom's mom] passed away on the 28th of Feb. She lived a long life and am happy that my children got to "hang" with her. I wrote soem stuff on my blog about her. Check it out!!!
sandrascafe.blogspot.com
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Oh Ali, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family always.
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Holding you and your family in prayer Ali. I know that the special memories that you have of your grandmother will bring you comfort and peace.
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Reading Chris' email to you brought a tear to my eye. I have no doubt that Grandma Cathy is smiling that special "grandmother" smile on all of you for the love you have for each other. Grandma Cathy was a wonderful influence and a special member of your family. Her spirit and love fills your heart...take peace in that.
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I'm sorry! Reading this brought tears to my eyes remebering how special my grandma was!
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