Peace be with you Grandma.
Tags:My Grandma Cathy (seen in the 2004 layout above) passed away on Friday evening after living a very fantastic full life.
Grandma Cathy was my Mom's Mom. Awesome, independent, vivacious, confident - all words that come to mind when I think of her. She was a super classy dresser and she gave the best hugs. She and my Grandpa always had the coolest drink stirrers in their bar area. She kept an immaculate home: tidy and organized and the most formal of any of my relatives. The ticking of a grandfather clock and the crazy sound of a cuckoo clock will always generate thoughts of my Grandparents. Her simple vinaigrette salad dressing is still one of the best I have ever tasted.
As a child one of my favorite things to do when visiting my Grandma was to have tea + cookies with her. I always felt really special and grown-up during those times. She had a delicate white cat teapot (which now lives with me) that poured the best cups of tea in the whole wide world.
One of the things I will treasure most about my Grandma is that she was such an awesome Mom to my Mom. I benefit from their relationship daily because she taught my Mom how to be a good Mom (through her words, actions, kindness, example, etc) and a good friend. My Mom and Grandma were close as adults, just as my Mom and I are close. My Mom means the world to me and I am so very lucky to have her in my life.
Thank you Grandma for giving me such a wonderful Mom.
I also want to share with you a very special email that Chris sent to my Mom on Saturday evening:
We all miss you Grandma. I am going to have a special cup of tea in that fantastic cat teapot to celebrate you today. Give Grandpa a big hug from each one of us.

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My thoughts are with you and your family. It's good to remember because then, in those thoughts, the people we love are alive. It's good to know your son will be able to remember and cherish those thoughts.
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Oh, Ali, I am sending you love and prayers for your Grandma. What a special lady she was. You are so blessed to have had her in your life and I know she will continue to be a positive influence on you. Your post has brought tears to my eyes. I am going to call my Grandma right now. Thank you.
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Ali,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. You have the most amazing family... so supportive and uplifting... what a blessing to have at times like these. And you're well on your way to continuing the legacy of her by being the great mom that YOU are.
Hugs,
stacey
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My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I hope you take comfort in the fact that your grandmother lives on in your precious memories, photographs and scrapbooks. It's times like this that I cherish our art even more.
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Ali, so sorry for your loss. Isn't it wonderful that you have scrapbook pages to remember her by? What a lovely keepsake for you and your family. Thinking of you, Lori
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Ali - what a wonderful tribute to your Grandma, both the sweet things that you remember about her, and then Chris' retelling of Simon's memories. Wow. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Lawren in Colorado
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So sorry for your loss, she sounds like a wonderful woman. Happily you and your family have wonderful memories to cherish.
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SO sorry for your loss. It is evident that your grandma was a special lady. Peace and comfort to you and yours.
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i am so sorry for your loss. peace be with you, too.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Ali: I am sorry for your loss but grateful that you shared such lovely memories with all of us. I lost my mom February 2007, then my 96-year-old grandmother February 18, 2008 and my mother-in-law 10 days later. I am who I am thanks to these three strong, wonderful women, and find strength in the memories we created together. Blessings and peace to your family.
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I read your blog often but this is the first time I have decided to post. The words you shared about your Grandma moved me so much. I visited my Grandma this weekend who is in the early stages of alzheimer's. Thinking of her being able to hug my Grandpa again makes the pain of seeing her memories slip away just a little easier. Thank you...my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
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Ali- I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved grandmother. I lost mine almost 2 years ago--I know how you are feeling. I wish you and your entire family peace. What happy, fond memories you have to reflect on. (((HUGS)))
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Just letting you know I am very sorry about the loss of your grandma. Your memories with her will remain forever in your heart.
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What a beautiful post--your words brought tears to my eyes. I'm so sorry for you and your family. Cherish that teapot for all the memories of Grandma it will bring you forever. My memories of my Grandma are of black olives! She lived far away from us but every year on my birthday in the mail would come a shoebox with 2 cans of black olives (she knew how much I loved them!) So now it makes me smile when I think about those silly black olives. How lucky we are to have those memories aren't we?
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I'm so sorry about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
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My thoughts are with you and you family.
((( HUGS )))
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So beautiful - it's all so beautiful.
Peace and prayers to you all.
A.
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Ali,
I know how it feels to lose a loved one. Especially a grandma. Mine just passed away 2 weeks ago. My heart goes out to you.
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Thank you for sharing every part of your life with us, so openly, so honestly and so thought provoking. Your thoughts brought back memories of my own grandma who's been gone nearly 20 years now. And how thoughtful of Chris to share those thoughts with your Mom. ((( Hugs ))) to you and your Mom as you deal with all that this passing brings to your week.
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