Peace be with you Grandma.
Tags:My Grandma Cathy (seen in the 2004 layout above) passed away on Friday evening after living a very fantastic full life.
Grandma Cathy was my Mom's Mom. Awesome, independent, vivacious, confident - all words that come to mind when I think of her. She was a super classy dresser and she gave the best hugs. She and my Grandpa always had the coolest drink stirrers in their bar area. She kept an immaculate home: tidy and organized and the most formal of any of my relatives. The ticking of a grandfather clock and the crazy sound of a cuckoo clock will always generate thoughts of my Grandparents. Her simple vinaigrette salad dressing is still one of the best I have ever tasted.
As a child one of my favorite things to do when visiting my Grandma was to have tea + cookies with her. I always felt really special and grown-up during those times. She had a delicate white cat teapot (which now lives with me) that poured the best cups of tea in the whole wide world.
One of the things I will treasure most about my Grandma is that she was such an awesome Mom to my Mom. I benefit from their relationship daily because she taught my Mom how to be a good Mom (through her words, actions, kindness, example, etc) and a good friend. My Mom and Grandma were close as adults, just as my Mom and I are close. My Mom means the world to me and I am so very lucky to have her in my life.
Thank you Grandma for giving me such a wonderful Mom.
I also want to share with you a very special email that Chris sent to my Mom on Saturday evening:
We all miss you Grandma. I am going to have a special cup of tea in that fantastic cat teapot to celebrate you today. Give Grandpa a big hug from each one of us.

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I'm sorry for you and your family's loss, but it seems by your post you gained so much from her life and for that I'm gratiful. Thank you for telling us about her.
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my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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What a beautiful way to remember a woman who sounds so real.
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So sorry that you lost your precious gramma Cathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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(hugs)
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So sorry for your family's loss. What a beautiful post today in remembering a very special person in your life.
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I am sorry you will be missing that special lady, but THANK you for sharing YOUR personal thoughts and memories and the amazing email Chris sent with Simon's thoughts and memories.
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I am sorry you will be missing that special lady, but THANK you for sharing YOUR personal thoughts and memories and the amazing email Chris sent with Simon's thoughts and memories.
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So sorry to hear about your grandma Ali. She sounds like an amazing woman. You were lucky to have her. ((HUGS))
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i love your perspective - to celebrate grandma cathy. to celebrate her life. indeed she sounds like a amazing person.
I'm happy for you guys that you have so many great memories of Grandma cathy. Enjoy that..
My love goes out to your whole family.
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Hope you'll be sustained by happy memories. You're in my thoughts and prayers, sweet girl.
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Ali and Family-
My heart goes out to you right now. I love your memories of your time with your grandma, they are so very special. I recently lost my grandmother (well 2 years ago) and my heart still hurts every single day when I think about it. I am most grateful that my son was able to meet her, spend time with her (if only for a few days) and know her the way I did. It is such a wonderful feeling!! After reading this today, you have helped me (in ways nobody has been able to yet) to truly look back on all the wonderful memories, jot them down and think of them. I know that my grandma and your grandma wouldn't want us sad but happy and drifting on the best memories possible. Starting today, I will do that. No more sadness of her being "gone" and away from me because her memories, her warmth, her wonderful "grandmother ways" are with me fresh and tucked deep in my heart. Thank you Ali! I know this wasn't your purpose but I truly say, "thank you from the bottom of my heart for opening the door for me to begin to truly heal and let go of the pain." Hears to happy times and blissful memories. =)
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My sincere condolences to you and your family. So sorry this happened. Iam so glad that you, chris and simon have such wonderful memories of her, that's wonderful. From what I've read she left a magnificent legacy..thank you for sharing this special moment with us, it touched me.
Prayers to you and your family, with deep admiration and respect, Paola Norman
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I am so sorry for your loss, but I love that you've remembered her in such a beautiful way. Hugs!
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You and your family will be in my prayers. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story about your Grandmother. What a blessing to have such wonderful memories. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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What a touching post. It sounds like you have so many fond memories of your Grandma and that makes dealing with the sadness so much easier. I lost my Grandma and Grandpa on my Dad's side in the past couple of years and I hold on to the small treasures I was able to keep from their house...they are warm reminders of all the great times we had together. {{HUGS}}
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dude, loved this post. it is a rich family tribute to an obviously wonderful woman.
I consider myself one of the luckiest people to be so close to you.
I am glad I was there when you heard the news. And you know that I am here if you need anything.
It's good to know that after all these years we've perfected that eye contact that acknowledges that we understand one another.
because without saying anything we both understand.
thanks for your friendship and warmth, your creative inspiration and for your genuine love. Your grandma will simply continue to shine thru you.
:)
P
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Ali,
I lost my Gram three short years ago almost to the day. I too have only happy memories. They are the best kind. May the thoughts of others bring you comfort.
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Grandmothers are the best!!! I know yours will be very much missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Grandmothers are the best!!! I know yours will be very much missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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