A Sense Of Place
Tags:I took this photo of Simon and Anna (and Lily in her bed) on Tuesday night.
It was about 7pm and Anna had just taken a bath. We put her PJ's on and she kept saying "no night night" so I decided she could stay up a bit longer - long enough to at least go downstairs and say goodnight to Simon.
When we reached the bottom of the stairs she ventured into the living room. I headed towards the kitchen to clean up a few more dishes from dinner.
A few minutes later I looked into the living room and saw that she had pulled her little bench over to the basket of books and was happily perusing her collection. At first I thought it was all part of a "no night-night" stall tactic. It probably was a little of that - but she was quiet and content and just going through her books and that's definitely a really good way to get me to let you stay up longer around here. She was enjoying it and I was feeling flexible.
It wasn't long before Simon joined in and starting looking through the books too.
At that point I raced upstairs to grab my camera, saying a little prayer that they would both be in the same place when I came back down. As you can see, that little prayer must have worked.
As I looked at the photo tonight I was reminded again how I like to take photos that include the surroundings (vs. just a close-up of a face). There's something about the environment and a sense of place that adds so much to the photo - the fireplace cover, a portion of the ottoman, the books all over the floor, the tv, the reflections of the rest of the room in the glass doors, etc. All pieces of our everyday life.
In the future I know I'll love seeing all the different pieces of this photo just like I love seeing photos from when I was a kid that included rooms from our house (and carpet, and furniture, and dishes, etc).
Next time you grab your camera consider including more of your everyday surroundings along with the people you love.

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Love Love this...and I "so" get the reading thing. Even my 20 yr. old that HATED school gets his truck books, he will set endlessly reading through them and that just tickles me pink. He does not get HES READING, something he always said while in highschool he hated to do!! Ohhhhhhhhhhhh love this!!!!
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Your kids will appreciate it when they look back on these pictures as an adult as well. I love seeing the old furniture and decorating in pictures of my childhood home. The little things in the pictures bring back a wealth of memories aside from the original intent of the photograph.
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I love that you also got the dog in the picture!
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Love the photo! I feel so strongly that while the 'big' moments are wonderful to capture, we usually remember them so much more easily. The real moments of everyday life are so essential and so important. The tenderness of the moment you have captured Ali is so eloquent and truly priceless....isn't that what life is all about. It's the stuff that fills my heart to bursting in my own life.
PS. We were huge book/reading lovers with our son when he was young which he LOVED and given your son Simon's self report on his reading so recently isn't this just such a great moment.
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Such a great suggestion Ali, I tend to zoom in all the time... I am afraid the 'clutter' will be seen if I don't! LOL! But you're exactly right, with small kids, there is clutter... At my house any way. One day my home will look like adults live here, but for now, we share the space with a 8 and 5 year old. You put that into perspective for me.
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Love the photo. Isn't that interesting how the small details mean so much later on? I was going through my childhood photos yesterday, preparing for my Y&T project and I found myself studying all of the different carpets and kitchen floors in our different 1970's homes and floors.
I've also noticed I'm constantly trying to construct the overall layout of the family rooms of the old houses I either don't remember or just barely remember. :)
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Ali, this is such a sweet photo. Glad you were able to capture that particular moment. I love it when my kids flip through (or read) books right before bed. It really brings a sense of peace & calm. Love it.
I posted about snapping photos of my children from a distance recently as well.
http://ellieandabbie.typepad.com/bright_eyes_blue_eyes/2011/01/photos-children.html
Like you said, I really think the surroundings (and extra "daily life stuff") in each of these type of photos will be fun for the children to look back on someday!
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I did a layout like this once. I had some OK pictures of my husband standing in our messy living room. But as I looked at it so many little things started jumping out at me. I started labelling them and writing them down and ended up with a page called "25 pieces of us."
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Love that title.
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This is a sweet photo and sweeter story. I love capturing the everyday things around the house in some of my pictures.
Funny that you had to go upstairs to get your camera, I picture you having it by your side all the time because you always get the little moments. Since doing a week in the life with you my camera is usually in my pocket or right beside me at all times so that I won't miss a sweet moment. Thanks for sharing and happy weekend.
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Reading has always been the great flexor in our family. The only thing we would ever bend a rule for...and it worked. :) Love the photo.
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I love this and especially the connection to books also.
Absolutely heart warming
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Fantastic!!! And how lucky you got to capture it!
I wasn't so lucky the other day when I attempted a hindquarters-only-while-I-shoved-myself-3/4-under-the couch shot of the jack russell. We have to be sneaky about the camera and hope a little divine hand keeps the subjects in their places!
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Beautiful family, beautiful moment and totally let my daughter stay up past bedtime when it involved a book too! Have a wonderful weekend Edwards family!
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I just came in from capturing one of those "hold it till I get back" moments! We have had so much snow and my husband has spent many hours with the snowblower this winter but they've mostly been at night. I haven't gotten a picture - but today it happened. So happy about that! Thank for your reminder to capture bigger - the snowdrifts gave perspective to the size of the little lawn tractor! Happy Weekending!
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Such a precious capture, Ali! Beautiful photo and memory. Have a wonderful weekend!
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Ali, what a good point—to show pieces of life in the photo. My tendency is opposite: focus as tightly as possible on subject at hand, cropping out extraneous stuff. But like you, I love looking at old pictures from my childhood and seeing the things that bring back memories. I need to expand my focus!
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Really sweet moment you captured :) I noticed scrapbookpictures.com has their 12x12 at $1.25/each thru the month of February. Just thought I would pass this along as I saw it when I was uploading pictures yesterday - you had posted Persnickety Prints recent sale which was a bit more at $1.99 I always love it when they run these sales. I have a bunch of 12x12 scrapbook pages to order!
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One more thing - I love your new digital evidence paper pack and linen tags. really cool! just ordere those since the 30% off sale is going on :)
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Thanks Lori!
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I love photos like this, when i want them of my son I have to go away from him to turn the camera on because if he hears it the moment is lost lol (hes 3 years old) and he hates photos been taken at the moment, but i did get a lovely one yesterday of him standing in the doorway of our french doors in the lviing room out to our back deck when it was pouring down with rain and he was just standing there taking it all in...lovely photos is the result....and yes like you Ali i like seeing all the stuff around as well in the photos :)
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That is a really sweet moment captured of them together. Well done, Mom!
So often, I purposely try NOT to capture the complete chaos (of toys everywhere) in the background of my shots. I guess this is a good way to look at it though. It is a look at our lives right now. And someday, we'll hopefully be able to claim our living room as an adult space again.
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