The Evolution Of My Story
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It's always been my goal to authentically share my story both in my scrapbooks and in this online space.
To me that means addressing the good, the bad, the beautiful, the successes, the challenges - the very real pieces of my life.
As many of you have noticed, and some have commented and emailed, Chris has been mostly absent for some time from the stories and photos. He has decided that he wants something different with his life and we are in the process of getting a divorce.
Chris continues to maintain an active role in the kid's lives.
There is nothing easy about this.
It's very hard and very stressful and very sad.
And yet, the story continues for all of us. For him and me. For the kids and me. For him and the kids. And there are many, many things I have to be thankful for in my life.
I've always maintained, and taught in my workshops, that not all stories need to be told.
But here, in this space, it's important to me that there's a general awareness of this change. This will allow me to more authentically share my story going forward.
A few months ago I asked for your prayers, your positive energy, your wishes of strength and peace, and your compassion. I'd humbly ask for your continued kindness as this specific chapter closes and new ones begin.
As you consider leaving a comment I would also humbly ask that you focus on something positive, compassionate and/or uplifting. Our heartfelt intent is to maintain a positive relationship as we move forward in our lives.
Wishing all of you, especially any of you who may be experiencing something similar within your own family, peace during the Christmas season.
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Thanks for keeping it real! Changes--no matter how big or how small--are always difficult. If you tackle this change with your usual style, even this darker time will turn into something that ends on a positive note. Keep smiling--even when you don't feel like it.
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You and your whole family are in my prayers.
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Hello Ali,
As I read this now, for the umpteenth time, I want you to know that I am praying for you now, that God would give you a big hug, fill you with His peace, and bring you comfort deep in your heart and soul. Praying for Simon, Anna, Chris, and your parents too.
Marie
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Ali -- this is a very old and much used comment but it gets me through my life during very difficult times "Every ending brings a new beginning." As you said, there is sadness but there can also be joy. May your new year truly be a new beginning and may this bring an closure to the initial sadness and joy to the new beginning. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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I wish you peace.
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Sending you love Ali. I have no doubt you will navigate through this challenge with grace. Praying for you. xoxo
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Wishing you love and peace and strength through the holiday season and beyond.
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Wishing you peace and love and healing for Christmas and the New Year. Imagine me wearing a t-shirt that says, "Team Ali," as a gesture of support.
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I am so very amazed by your honesty and authenticity. It can't be easy, especially at this time of year. But it is evident that you are approaching a difficult situation with an open and honest heart and hoping for the best outcome.
I wish you peace and love this holiday season and for the future!
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"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade". you always hear that. but people forget to mention that lemonade without sugar sucks. so my wish for you is that you will find sweet moments, sweet friends, sweet time with your children and extended family and anything else sweet and precious in this difficult time of your life. hang in there.
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I will be sending you positive thoughts and wishes for strength and renewed energy as you enter this new chapter in your life.
Happy holidays to you and the kids, Ali....may 2012 bring you all the joy and healing you deserve.
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Ali, your post title says it all.
Thank you for being such an authentic inspiration!
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So sorry to hear this Ali. Sending warm hugs your way. May 2012 bring all the good things you and your family so deserve.
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Ali, sending all my positive energy your way right now. You are such a positive influence for so many of US!
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Sometimes our life does not take us where we thought it would - we don't wish for the places it does take us - but that's how it is - and then our life is what we make of it. Choose to be happy!
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Ali, sending you love and kisses to store away and use when needed. stephxx
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Ali,
To say i'm sorry is just so much less than what my heart feels for you and your kids. I know that God will give you all the strenght you need to continue forward but to take flight. Know that my prayers are with you and that i will keep you ever present in my thoughts. I cannot imagine what you are going through, but know that there are many of us out here who, although are not there physically we are there emotionally with you. God keep you and strengthen you, and guide you.
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How my heart aches for you...I too have been following you for years...I feel like we are friends even though we have never met. Thank you for sharing your stories. You have made a positive impact on my life and I hope that my prayers and thoughts make one on yours.
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so sorry for Anna and Simon - may God comfort and lift them up!
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Ali, you've been an inspiration to so many, those who comment, those who don't. May the comments here be inspiration, remembrance and peace to you. Merry Christmas!
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