The Evolution Of My Story

I don't know what to say except that I am thinking of you and praying for you. You've given the world so much and were instrumental in me falling in love with the craft of scrapbooking and storytelling. Keep on giving beauty, so many of us appreciate your wonderful efforts.

Thank you for being real and transparent with your readers. You are a gem.

Hugs and Prayers for you all. Stellar example of how to react and respond in such an overwhelming time. I had a terrible last year myself. Staying positive and focused and surronding myself with the same type of people made the journey of new experiences easier. xoxo

Most of this year I have spent in your situation. But I'm very happy to say that my situation won't be ending with a divorce. We've come to realize that what we have together today, will be better than what we had in the past. I'm hoping that made some sense. My husband has never been a church goer, but Jesus still answered my prayers by helping him. I'll a add a prayer that He sees you through this, too. P.S. You are always an inspiration to me. Thank you.

It's funny because his absence has been noticed..when someone has a blog that shows all family members and suddenly, one is not around as much..suspicions arise. I'm so sorry that this is happening to you and your family..but with every one of my friends where this has happened..including myself..a more fulfilling life is around the corner. My first marriage ended leaving me spinning and wondering about my future..well my future was already in place when I met my second husband and we had two amazing hooligans..something so much better was waiting for me. My friends have had better not worse life experiences after the end of a marriage that clearly wasn't working. We're here for you Ali. We've got your back..we'll rally around you and hold you up! You're all in my prayers..Now, I'm going to act like your Mother: Ali, you're 1)Smart 2)Gorgeous 3)Sweet 4)Good 5)Creative 6)Loving...the list goes on Sister. On to bigger and better things. On to an authentic life with only LOVE surrounding you and your fantastic children! xoxo

ali, you have been on my heart and in my prayers for the last few months. you are loved and treasured by so many. thank you for letting us into your life so we can support you. love to you.

You can do anything you set your heart to and that includes getting thru this. As a divorcee and mother of 2 wonderfully
adjusted girls you can make it work and kids adjust to the new routines better than you think. Stay friends with Chris it will
make things soooo much easier.

You are an exceptional woman, an exceptional mother, and so very loved. I can't find words to say just how much it's affected me to see someone so committed to their craft, to practicing honesty and vulnerability and still maintaining strength and grace through it all. I wish you the very best, Ali, and as you craft your new normal, that you find unexpected joys and wonder. Blessings to you.

Dear Ali,
My brother recently went through this when his (ex-)wife decided she wanted something different. Though it was an extremely painful process, even for people not directly involved, he and his ex-wife made a commitment to try to keep as positive a relationship as possible for the sake of their children. This is their first holiday season with the "new arrangement" (i.e. being officially divorced and having two different households) and it is tricky, but also admirable and touching to see how they are making it work.

My prayer for you is strength, courage, and grace upon grace as you and your beautiful children sort this all out.

Hugs,
Margaret McGarry

I'm thinking of you and your family! I thought you might enjoy this quote which I found off a different blog awhile ago, it's one of my favorites.

"I don’t find it particularly interesting when people who are fearless go on to do great things; if you are truly fearless, any advice you could give would have no relevance in my life. People that have worries, and find ways to cope or work around them, are always the most inspiring. It is when you have jitters to overcome, and yet you still get up each and every day, trying to make your own and others’ lives better, that you become a role model."

i'll keep you + yours in my thoughts, ali. sending love, strength and clear headedness as you start a new chapter.

we have a neighbor / family at our school where the parents are divorced, but have a good relationship. they come to pto meetings together. they go to events together. they are kind & comfortable with one another. i just wanted to share that because every time i see them i think it's fabulous they're able to maintain that, and i wish that for you and chris.

Someone told me during a hard time that this experience is preparing you for what you are meant to do next. Somehow, the pain will transform and you're story will continue.

Ali-

So deeply saddened for you & your family - sending prayers of comfort & strength to you as you go through this trying time in your life. You are such an inspiration to so many of us {hugs}

Thinking of you, Ali. So, so sorry your family is going through this.

Ali, just wishing for you to find your happiness.
Merry Christmas to you and your children.

My prayers are with you, and especially Simon & Anna.

Praying for you and your family during this difficult transition. I am always amazed at how generous you are in sharing your life with the world. Even though many of us have never met you in person, you are loved, and we wish the best for you.

Much love to all 4 of you, Ali.

Carmen.

Thinking of you and your kiddos during this hard time. Thanks for sharing with us--although we're virtual, you have a place in our hearts and I'm lifting all four of you up in prayer. Wishing you all the best to come.

Hi Ali, I've been a fan of yours for a few years now....my family teases me about it. I just wanted to let you know, you are in my positive thoughts and prayers always. You are truly an amazing, wonderful,loving woman. I wish for your new year peace, happiness, and "love"....which btw is my word for 2012!

Thank you for being so real, true and honest. May each day find you with more strenght as you walk into your new life. Having people behind you, family lifting you, and children to drive you it will get easier. God Bless you and your family Ali. Much love.