The Evolution Of My Story
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It's always been my goal to authentically share my story both in my scrapbooks and in this online space.
To me that means addressing the good, the bad, the beautiful, the successes, the challenges - the very real pieces of my life.
As many of you have noticed, and some have commented and emailed, Chris has been mostly absent for some time from the stories and photos. He has decided that he wants something different with his life and we are in the process of getting a divorce.
Chris continues to maintain an active role in the kid's lives.
There is nothing easy about this.
It's very hard and very stressful and very sad.
And yet, the story continues for all of us. For him and me. For the kids and me. For him and the kids. And there are many, many things I have to be thankful for in my life.
I've always maintained, and taught in my workshops, that not all stories need to be told.
But here, in this space, it's important to me that there's a general awareness of this change. This will allow me to more authentically share my story going forward.
A few months ago I asked for your prayers, your positive energy, your wishes of strength and peace, and your compassion. I'd humbly ask for your continued kindness as this specific chapter closes and new ones begin.
As you consider leaving a comment I would also humbly ask that you focus on something positive, compassionate and/or uplifting. Our heartfelt intent is to maintain a positive relationship as we move forward in our lives.
Wishing all of you, especially any of you who may be experiencing something similar within your own family, peace during the Christmas season.
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Ali,
I wish you, Chris, Simon, and Anna peace this holiday season and always. Thank you for sharing your evolving journey with us.
Courtney
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Ali, thank you for leading all of us out here who faithfully follow your example. You have been so composed, so brave and once again so authentic. We are here cheering you on. You go girl! Peace and love to you today....
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Ali, Thank you for sharing so much of yourself. You help me to have the courage to share more of my authentic self. Thank you for courage. Praying for strength and peace.
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I didn't know about the troubles you were having, but now that I do, I wanted to tell you that I appreciate so much all that you do. Every time I read your blog I wonder how in the world you have time to not only document your family's life, but to help all of us who are trying to do the same. All of the blog posts and photos and links to products are so extremely helpful, and you doing this while going through such a trying time in your life is remarkably kind.
I hope you fine peace during this Christmas season, and thank you for all you do.
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Praying God blesses you with strength and joy as you move forward.
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Hugs, Ali. Thinking of you.
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I have been thinking of you so often since September. I know you will find a way forward. Happy holidays to your family.
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As bad as things may seem, there's always someone in a worse situation. My gradeschool chum's younger brother had a stroke last Thursday. He's still heavily sedated & they're not sure yet what the long term effects will be. It's just some perspective. Prayers for you & if you have the inclination--say a prayer for Denny at Henry Ford Hosp in Detroit as well.
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My prayers and loving thoughts are with you during this difficult times. Our Lord will guide you and give you strength to continue on with your life. Chris and you created two beautiful children and they are such huge blessings.
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sending you peace, Ali. I very much admire you.
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Thank you for your honest sharing Ali. I've been thinking of you for some time and mindful of what may be happening. Know that this community will be loving you and cheering you on from all over the world- I, in Australia are just one!
We love the way that you share with us and inspire us with your stories and life. Hugs to you and the kids and Chris as you move forward in new ways. Much love, Beck xoxo
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Classy, as always Ali.
Best wishes to you and your family moving forward.
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You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May God bless you all!
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Just want to tell you your blog inspires me to tell my 'real life' story for my children and for me. You're a great mom and I appreciate your blog as a small window into your creative life. I am always happy and inspired after leaving this space- thank you!
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So sorry that you are going through this Ali! I wish you continued strength and happiness for you, Simon, and Anna! I hope you can find good during this Holiday season!!
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Ali,
You are truly an amazing woman. Thank for showing us that it's ok to share the good and bad. It's makes us who we are. Wishing you peace and joy this holiday season.
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I wish you only peace in your heart and the strength to handle what you're going through with grace. Take comfort in the love and joy from your 2 beautiful children. Stay Strong. May God Bless you.
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I thought that it was probably the case. Ironically the breakdown of my own relationship has happened at the same time. I have been able to grieve along with you. I saw your strength and your focusing on the positive and that has enabled me to do the same. Thank you for being a role model Ali. Thank you for sharing. We still haven't told the people in our life as we didn't want to spoil Christmas for them but I think maybe honesty is best.
You are such an inspiration and I send you my love xxx
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so sorry to hear that. sending you positive vibes and good thoughts for the holidays season, good luck breaking the news.
julie from wellington
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after my divorce I embraced the new connection that formed between Caitlyn and i. we became mother and child all over again in a new, changed way. I appreciated her so much more - which surprised me. enjoy the new journey you are embarking on with Simon and Anna. it will change you for the better. :-)
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Ali, so sorry to hear this and yet I know you will find the strength to move forward. And I know your new OLW will provide opportunity for finding that strength in looking up.
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