The Evolution Of My Story

Ali,

Powerful quote.
Poignant post.
Graceful moment.

I am not good with comforting words. But felt compelled to leave a note to say one more person is truly sorry with you and am channeling all the good will I can muster across state lines to you and the kids.

((HUGGS))

Thank you for being authentic. You are an inspiration.

thank you for sharing so much of your life with us! i am impressed with how you are handling this. i feel as though we are friends (or would be)... you are in my thoughts and prayers. life can be so hard! just take it one day at a time.

Ali, You are a remarkable woman and your strength will get you through this. You and your family are going into my God box tonight. Know that your are in the thoughts and prayers of a lot of people who's lives you've touched.

Ali,

Prayers of peace for you and your family. I am amazed by your strength and your determination to tell (and share) your story. May you feel the love of your "fans" during the difficult times. Thank you for blessing me (and ultimately my family) by continuing to inspire me daily.

Sometimes life takes us in a different direction than we initially intended for ourselves. There is truly a reason for everything and while those reasons don't often come to light in the midst of difficult situations they are there-somewhere, waiting for us. I wish you all the best in your relationship with Chris and hope that you both find what you are looking for. I'll keep your family in my prayers this holiday season.

You are such an inspiration to us all. Thank you for being so real and sharing your gifts with us. You are brave and courageous. Most importantly, as readers, we can see the love you have for Simon and Anna. How fortunate they are to have a mom like you. They are blessed. May you find a place of peace and comfort during these difficult times.

I don't normally comment, though I read your blog faithfully. As many others have said (and from the little I know from meeting you in person at various classes/events); if anyone can do this, you can. You are so brave, and amazing, and loving, and kind. You are not only a terrific mama to two very special children, you are an amazing person who's light shines everyday. Hugs and prayers to you and your children as you move on to the next chapter and continue your story.

Ali-i check in every day. I am so grateful for you and your blog. You inspire me in so many ways. Which is an understatement. You are in my prayers. So much love to you all.

Your strength and courage are admirable. Know that you have an endless support group throughout the world that is lifting you and your beautiful up in prayer. May God continue to bless you.

My thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time. aving watched 3 siblings go through the same thing, I can testify that life does go on and can be just as beautiful as you want it to be. Thank you for sharing yourself with us so honestly and openly. I'll keep you in my thoughts as you start this new chapter of your life and pray that it will be everything you could dream of. Lots of love & Merry Christmas!

Thank you for your courage and your intergrity, Ali. You are a wonderful person, a beautiful mother, a fearless creator, and a gorgeous inspiration. Any person would be lucky to have you as their partner.

As Hafiz said:

"This sky
where we live
is no place to lose your wings.
So love, love
love."

Much love to you, and power to your wings.
Kat x

Dear Ali
I am praying for you, Chris, Simon and Anna. I hope that you all enjoy a lovely Christmas and that 2012 bring healing into your life.
Thankyou for sharing so honestly with us over these years. Here's to happier days ahead.

So much grace to share something so intimate and painful with all of us. I offer you a humble thank you and stand in awe of your grace and class. All my best to you and your family. XO

What a difficult time-many prayers for you-all of you. May 2012 bring peace and happiness.

You're a strong woman Ali and I admire your spirit. You're such an awesome Mom - Simon and Anna are lucky to have you! Wishing you all the very best.

I have followed you blog since I met you at CKU 6/08 Houston. I feel like I know you and your family because of your gift of sharing through words and pictures. Life happens. That's for sure. Plan B. Even when there was no plan B. I'm on plan C and D in some areas of my life! God bless you all, you will be in my prayers as I think of you. Know that you have helped to change my life in such a great way through memory keeping. Thank you for that. Debbie

Your last paragraph spoke to me as we are experiencing a divorce in our family the mother, my daughter in law, continues to lie and keep the children from my son as much as possible. he is biding his time until the paper work is drawn up the courts spelling out the visitation and trying to make the situation the best he can for his children. it is very painful to watch this, but there are blessings i have seen my son grow up in many ways he is questioning the best way to parent and explain the situation to the kids without demeaning their mother
i am sorry for anyone who has to go through a divorce it is painful but there are blessings along the way Bless you and your family it will be all right!!!

Dear Ali,

I'm so sorry to hear about this. My parents are divorced and I would just like to offer that they did a wonderful job post divorce of parenting me. It is possible. I'm sure beautiful things are ahead for you. Sending you positive energy.

god you impress me. i have wondered but never wanted to intrude in your personal life. i think you are such an amazing and graceful person. in spite of whatever pain you may feel, you will move through this with the integrity and dignity you display here because you love your kids and act with your kid's best intentions always at the forefront. 'this too will pass,' was what has gotten me through rough times. your life is so full Ali, your children are an absolute joy and your craft is spectacular. my wish for you is that you allow yourself to feel the full range of emotions throughout this process so that when the time is right you will be able to close this door knowing that you are all right with yourself. i think with lots of admiration that you will continue to be unselfish and gracious where your children are involved. a very good friend of mine has always said that in order to feel absolute joy one must be willing to feel absolute pain. thank you for being so honest. you are in my thoughts and prayers. seriously you rock woman!