One Little Word® 2015
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My One Little Word® for 2015 is give.
The process of choosing a word, or letting it choose me as is often the case, is always interesting. For me it often starts around October - words begin popping up here and there via reading or conversations or overhearing something on the radio. I tend to do a lot of listening and thinking and trying each one on for a minute or two or a couple days or longer.
I know there is no perfect word, there's only choices and paths and possibilities.
This year the word give showed up in October if I remember correctly. It came in more like a whisper - some years my words have been so loud as if they were making it so they couldn't be ignored.
Give began with the idea of giving to others and the question of what is it that I currently give. I'm pretty sure it was sparked by my trip to Washington DC to attend the ONE Campaign's AYA Girls And Women's Summit. There was a shift in my thoughts and a vivid reminder that it's not just about me and my own stuff - it was such a powerful opportunity to reflect on my place in the larger world and become educated on some of the issues facing girls and women in Africa.
Over the last few months since it first made itself known, my thoughts about the word give and what I want to focus on in 2015 has evolved which is something I always welcome as I choose a new word. Give, for me, is so much more than the process of "handing something over."
Give love. Give kindness. Give time. Give patience. Give to others. Give to myself.
On a certain level, the word give for me is rooted in connection and openness and awareness and willingness.What do the people around me need? How can I connect with them through the process of giving of myself? Over the last year I've lost some of myself in work and the transitions and I want more than anything to reconnect to the things/people/places I most value.
Another level/definition of the word give is the idea of bending and being flexible. It's a nod to living in the gray areas and working on lessening my constant grip on the black and whiteness of things. My ability to be black and white is at the same time very much a strength in some areas and a weakness in others. Discerning the difference between when to give and when to hold firm is something I'd like to explore this year.
The third level of give for me is in giving to myself. Giving time to myself. Giving patience to myself. Giving kindness to myself. Giving love to myself. I like the combination of the connection with others and the connection with myself. It's an opportunity to fine tune and get clear and make choices that align with what I care about most.
I'm also interested in exploring give up, give away, and give in - all three of which I see as positive steps/ideas vs. the negative way they could be taken.
I'm looking forward to experiencing a new journey with a new word in 2015.
PS | That awesome little whole heart pocket talisman is from my dear friend Liz Lameroux's shop Soul Mantras. Check out all her lovely offerings here.
PSS | Listen to Elise Cripe and I chat about One Little Word® on her latest podcast episode here.
SHARE YOUR WORD THE COMMENTS
I’d love to read what word you’ve chosen or are considering for 2015. In the comments feel free to simply leave your word as your comment or write a bit about why you are choosing this word. Next week I’ll combine all the words into a single post – it's become tradition and super inspiring to see all the words in one place.
If you’re new to the concept of One Little Word®, you can read some of my previous posts here: 2007, 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013 and 2014.
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My word is BUILD. It's time for me to build a life that truly makes me happy, complete with a plan and a lot of sweat equity.
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My one little word for 2015 is JOY! I want to have more joy with my kids and my husband and my friends and just life in general.
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My 2015 word is FOCUS. In 2014 my word was INSPIRE and it truly was with me the entire year even though I missed some of the monthly prompts and I still feel that word, but this year I'm very determined to hit a goal I have been toying with for far to long so as I began to think about words to help encourage me and get me to my goal FOCUS kept coming to the forefront so bring on 2015 and FOCUS.
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CONNECT
i did nothing with my word for 2014. i had not planned on doing a 2015 word but CONNECT has been speaking to me for a couple of months. connecting with family & friends & self.
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Pace
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Choose
This is going to be a year of major change for me. Some I want and some I don't, so I want to be mindful to CHOOSE my path in a year that will probably be difficult.
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PROGRESS
As in step out of the stagnation I have felt in every area of my life and make a move forward, for the better.
So glad I stumbled across this project Ali, you have really inspired me. I am really looking forward to taking this journey with you.
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BRAVE
We have a year coming up filled with a lot of change including an international move for our family. If I am going to make this new country feel like home then I am going to have to truly embrace it along with the language and the people. Those kinds of thing have always been difficult for me. Time to be brave :)
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FLOW, as in go with the flow but also don't forget to fly- make progress to let things go,accept the way my life develop
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SIMPLE
This is the year I explore simplifying my life. Simplicity. Minimalism. Freedom from complexity. I want to enjoy the simple life. I want to relish the small details.
This is the first year I have been completely consumed by my word and actually find myself EXCITED about getting started! I can wait to start exploring how it relates to my life on a daily basis and how I can consciously focus on it and unconsciously let it unfold in the daily details of my life. Thanks, Ali, for such an awesome exploration!
best,
Jocelyn
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Sparkle.
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I hadn't given it much of a thought until I saw your word. But "Shine" arrived in my head and I think that means something. Usually I avoid the chance to shine (like in a spotlight). So shine to me is more of a polishing of what I can do and trying to brighten areas of things I need improvement on. And always putting forth time and energy to help others to shine brighter. As is the trend in some embellishments, I am starting to embrace the flashes of gold and silver instead of the matted hues.
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FOCUS
I chose it after careful consideration and a lengthy elimination process. Seriously! I chose FOCUS because I have changes that I would like to make in the coming year and they won't happen without proper attention, emphasis and effort given to them. I know this about myself .... that too often I get sidetracked and lose sight of my goals. Making FOCUS my OLW this year gives me a real chance at success and achievement of the things that matter most to me.
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enough
I am enough! Enough stuff, enough waiting….giving the enough thought to others, you are enough!
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LET IT GO
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Light
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Change.
Big change coming in 2015, our son is graduating and moving to collage, change in homes, change is job, I have moved to supervisor, change in body, change in attitude, change in schedule. Just plain change. Really it's the going to collage.
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brilliant - because I love the sound of it and because an idea, a look, a thought, a person, a day, a trip, and so much more can all be brilliant. Can't wait to live it every day.
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Intention - as in daily intention or yoga intention. It chose me as it always does. I want something to remind me to stay on my daily course of gratitude, of being mindful, aware, living fully and with intent.
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Push
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