Week In The Life™ 2026 | Wednesday
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Here's a look at my Wednesday:

Mom had a sleepover with me on Tuesday night and when we got up and were getting breakfast together I suggested she go out and smell the Japanese Snowbell Tree and listen for all the bees that visit when the tree is in bloom.


The story with the microwave is that one of the kids burned popcorn in there bad enough to basically kill it. Unfortunately in our house the set up is a combined microwave + oven unit and we will have to replace the whole thing. We had hoped maybe it was just a temporary issue but it continues.


Something I want to remember about this time is getting a mocha for Mom often when we get together. It's such a simple treat that she enjoys so much.

Our first activity of the day was heading to Anna's school for an Academic Awards Assembly.




Anna looking up at me, Mom, Chris and Tiffany after receiving a Theology Award.

When my sister saw this photo on Instagram she commented, "I hope that gave Mom a glimpse of her legacy!!"
Both my parents, but my mom especially, truly valued the importance of education. She grew up in a very, very small town in Eastern Oregon and studied Clothing + Textiles (Home Economics) at Oregon State. She Mom advocated for a religious education for me and my siblings (my Dad was raised Catholic and my Mom was raised Presbyterian - she converted when I was older). She wanted us to have a strong foundation upon which to build our lives that was rooted in faith.
We went to Catholic grade school and Catholic high school and a lot of what I learned there absolutely influenced the person I am today. For me it was the combination of rigorous academics, competitive athletics, community service experiences, and a very strong retreat program that made the entire experience so fundamental and impactful. Mom was always really proud of herself that she pushed my Dad to spend their money on education.
All that to say, I am really deeply thankful for my Catholic education even though I am not a practicing Catholic. It was something that I wanted for my kids as well - to experience an education that taught not just about one religion but religions around the world (Go Jesuits). Catholic education was, unfortunately, not an option for Simon (which is a whole other story) but it was for Anna.
Getting to have Mom there to see Anna receive an academic award in Theology was a full circle moment. It was also a surprise! We knew she was going to be receiving an award but we didn't know which subject. Having it be one rooted in faith with Mom there to witness is another gift of this season.
The mission of my high school is: Bellarmine, as a Catholic college preparatory school in the Jesuit tradition, through dedication to academic excellence and development of the whole person, graduates young men and women of competence, compassion and conscience, who are committed to leadership and service.
The motto of Anna's high school is: Marist Catholic High School is a Christ-centered, welcoming community committed to academic excellence and preparing students to lead and serve others.
(And wow, I just started writing under that one photo and turns out I have a lot to say.)

On Wednesday I finished moving my parents into their new companion rooms. When they initially moved into their new community only separate rooms were available. Mom was really excited for the new set up.


Yesterday my Dad asked to go outside for the first time in over a month. Mom and I were shocked and delighted. We took him for a walk and a ride around the community before taking him down to their new room. It was a good day for him and we celebrated with Coke in glass bottles that he loves.


Aaron came over after work to help move a bed and a few bigger items.
New chapters. New stories. For all of us.

Once we got Mom + Dad settled enough to leave I headed over to Anna's Lacrosse Banquet to celebrate the end of the season. I missed most of it but was able to pop in and give some hugs and laugh with some friends who all want to know how things are going. Anna was awarded Second Team All League for Defense which is pretty darn awesome for her non-primary sport. I love that she chose to start playing this as a freshman for something fun - it's been a great experience for her.
And I love her friends.

I brought home burgers for me and Aaron and we ate in our bed while we watched NBA highlights from the last couple games.

Audrey and her sweet long term boyfriend Joren were at the house last night. These days she's at her Mom's most of the time because it's closer to school and activities and Joren (on the other side of town). She's been studying for finals and getting excited for summer.

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Such sweet moments again for your day. You are doing so good getting photos and words down. I love seeing your mom get pictures too. What a gift for your mom seeing Anna get her award. As a grandma I love these moments too. Congrats to Anna, that’s wonderful for her!! So happy it was a good day for your dad! One day at a time for all of you. 💛💛
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I totally resonated with your Catholic education being a major responsibility for who I am today. The faith and community are just as important as education. I too pushed for my kids to receive a Catholic educations (they are 3rd generation). They are so thankful and am I. It was nice to hear how important it was to you and your family.
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thank you for sharing your life with us all. Prayers for you, your parents, and your whole family as you all journey through this challenging time of life. I love how through it all you still find those joyful moments to be grateful and celebrate.
Not sure if this will work, but if the microwave issue is lingering burnt odor every time you use it, this could help. Steam clean first by heating 1 cup of water, 3 tablespoons of white vinegar, and 2 tablespoons of lemon juice or 1 teaspoon of vanilla extract in a bowl for 3-6 mins on high, Don’t open the door and just let the steam sit for 15-20 mins. Wipe everything down. Then leave a bowl of baking soda or coffee grounds in the closed microwave overnight. It may be a bit of a long shot but it works sometime. One other thought… most microwaves also have a couple of filters (one usually underneath for things like grease and one either behind the top vent or somewhere inside, google your microwave type for location.) Replacing them may fix the stink also.
* edited at Thu, 21 May 2026 20:19:42 -0400Replies to Tf6082
Thank you! Unfortunately it's throwing sparks on the inside!
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Your comment about your Catholic education hit close to home. My 3 daughters attended Bellarmine and went on to attend 3 different Jesuit universities. All my girls dove deep into the all the religious activities offered in high school and college. One of my daughters became a Peace Corps volunteer in Morocco. A foundation had been set for them back at Bellarmine.
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Congratulations to Anna and I love your sister's comment about legacy. I see myself if many of the photos you are taking regarding your parents as I am living a very similar story. Feeling the heavy and the light as you said and trying to capture and feel both this week. There were glimpses of it last year in my album but as in your story things have really ramped up. There are amazing things as well as we are first time grandparents...joy and sorrow. Just grateful to you for your honest portrayal of life and for this project. Holding your family in my thoughts as I and you and many others navigate similar stories. Thank you, Ali!
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How amazing that your mom was there to see Anna get her award! My oldest just graduated from Loyola Chicago earlier this month and the Jesuit community supported her as she came out as LGBTQ - love that community so much! And the story about your dad -- brought tears to my eyes!
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