Thinking About The Ways We Evolve
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Remember when I used to “just write” more in this space?
I do.
For those of you who have been around for years - maybe even back to the beginning in 2004 - thank you for still being here. Things - so many things - are obviously very different from when I first started this blog. Think of all the things in your own life that have happened over the last 14 years: children, work, family, health, etc.
Fourteen years.
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the ways we evolve: personally, professionally, emotionally, spiritually, etc.
I know there are some of you out there who wish this space still contained the same kind of story-sharing as it used to in past years. To be honest, there are times I really miss it and times I have no idea what to say and times when it’s the last thing I want to do. I have drafts here on my computer of posts I’ve started and abandoned for one reason or another over the years.
These days I do most of my story sharing via Instagram. I like it over there. I like the visual nature and I think it’s felt like the right place for me for a number of years to share more personal pieces of my story (and to then copy + paste my words into many of the projects I create). This blog space has become more of an archive of past posts along with current posts about projects and the products that support those products - the business piece of my life. That’s simply been the evolution of my business. I know it's not the same as it was before and I know some of you wish that was different.
I still tell my stories on layouts and I still do projects and I still document my life and the lives of people in my family in a variety of projects very regularly. I share December Daily® and Week In The Life™ and Day In The Life™ and Project Life® spreads here and tell many other stories within the Story Subscription and within the One Little Word® classroom content each month. I also do a whole lot more design work and focus on a steady stream of content creation for workshops and take care of the business part of the business. All of that has been an evolution of the way my business has grown and changed over the years.
A lot of times we want things to stay the same. We may even beg for them to remain the same - man, I have been there. Most of the time though, it’s not in the cards no matter how much we want it. Things change and grow and end and stagnate and then there are new beginnings. Sometimes it’s easy and other times it’s super hard.
So why am I writing about this now?
I think I’m writing it about it now becuase I’ve been thinking a lot about writing for the sake of writing and I've been taking a good hard look at a bunch of "spaces" in my life as part of my journey with my One Little Word® for 2018.
My life does look different now. My family has expanded and there are more things to consider than there was back in the beginning. How do I tell these stories? Which pieces are mine to tell? So maybe it will be baby steps.
I guess what I want you to know is that I get it. If you have missed a more personal connection in this space, I understand. And thank you. Thank you for being a part of this space for how ever long you have been here. Thank you for giving me space to figure this (all whatever “this” is) out as I go along. It’s how we grow and evolve. Thank you for sticking around.
Sometimes it’s simply time to start again.
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Another long term reader and follower Ali from back in the days when Simon was a toddler and I read your post's dealing with learning about his probable autism. You had me with that kind of vulnerablilty because our truth is in our stories. Yes, as others have said, your blog was the first one I read each day but the blogging world has changed so much. I was up in the air as to whether I wanted to shut down my own blog after 10 years but decided that old posts are there to be scrapped. And scrapping? I learned from you and your first templates on Designer Digitals AE_LayeredTemplateNo2! Oh the agony of my first forays into digital art! At heart I am still a clean scrapper like you and often use your handwriting for journaling. I tell long stories! I know you know how to handle your own path and I will alway be a supporter. Long ago when your marriage was breaking your heart, I wrote you and you answered me. I felt as if I was blessed to have that contact. Actually, you are a blessing to so many. You gave dignity to many of the hard things we have to walk through in life. Grace and dignity. Be well Ali, and i look forward to the new chapters of your life.
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Thank you for writing about evolution, i'm doing some catch up and your words definitely spoke to me today...one thing I've always admired is your ability to step back, look at things and then pivot...or not...as the case may be. Lots of evolution here... dad to a nursing home and cleaning out the last of his things from his house... my girls starting their senior year (!) in HS... planning for college... planning for new business...planning for hubby to bow out of his business... talking about what the next season of life will look like for us...so yes to evolution and to starting over, or just a little shift xoxo.
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Have been following since about 2006! Miss the more personal stories but still love your blog and completely understand that your life has changed drastically. Can't imagine the time that your pour into your business as it has grown and am appreciative for your commitment to your followers and clients.
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Yes things have changed since 2004. Loved all of it. Then and now. But seeing some more stories would-be great. Fan girl here. Bye Irene
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I’ve been a quiet supporter a long time and while I understand life/work changes (we are all going through it), I will be honest. I look for your “nugget” stories of your life on your blog not just products stories. For example the Seattle trip was beautiful! I do follow you on IG for the more current updates and maybe that’s where we are heading but I do still like “the nuggets!”
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I have been feeling so much the same. All my site is now mostly concert photography and I feel almost silly when it's something personal. But I still want the space to be whatever I want it to be, dammit! I've told you this before that I don't even scrapbook but yours is one of the newsletters I get because I just love your work. So I am happy to hear from you in any way I can. xoxo - Aimee
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Not that you'll see this comment since this is an older post but I just adore you and admire you on so many levels. I truly do not see how you juggle all the things in your life. You make it look easy and effortless and I know it must be a mind-boggling amount of actual W-O-R-K. Meanwhile, we all await a morsel of your brilliance here and on social media. No pressure! haha!
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Beautiful art Aliedwards! you got a great skill of writing :)
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Ali...I have been here since the beginning! and will continue to be here. You have influenced my life and given perspective. My life has changed too...it's part of the process. Remember when you were starting this and said "what do I put on the blog?" and you gave that tip for an easier way to eat kiwi - cut in half? :) Man has it changed! It's great you have this for you, your memories, your friends, your business! Thanks for always being Ali!
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I LOVE THIS POST!!! I have been a follower, probably since the beginning (2004), and believe me, my life, my family and my stories have certainly evolved and changed during the past 14 years! So I get it. Totally. I just thank you as always for being so candid and this post has given me an idea of what to say in my own very long overdue blog post. Starting anew is not always a bad thing... so I've learned! Thanks for sharing!!!
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I’ve been a long time follower, ever since you came and taught a class at the little scrapbooking store I worked at in Iowa during my college years :). I would say that yes there is a change, but always inspiring. In the beginning I feel like I was inspired to tell my story after reading yours. Now I feel equally inspired by the products, tools, and perspectives you give. Maybe even more so now because having the physical elements give even more push to get the stories told. Thank you for always sharing your love of story, whatever the form may look like.
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Here's what I think: The journey is as important as the destination, making it essential to pause, calibrate, adjust, and evolve. How awesome that you are willing to share this process and your progress so far.
Thank you for being you and for having the courage to be seen. You ROCK, my friend!
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